Bi Or Lesbian?

I know that bisexuality between women is definitely on the rise as just a fun and convenient alternative. For me, personally, I was just never interested.

Then, when the lockdown started and everyone was forced to stay at home, including myself as I started working from home, I began to become quite bored. Being forty-eight and divorced, my life wasn’t all that exciting to begin with. I really wasn’t interested in dating and getting back into all of that, although I did enjoying going out and meeting with friends.

Then a neighbor in my apartment building who I was casually acquainted with, invited me over for coffee and some conversation. Susan was nice, fifty-four and also divorced. She confessed to being just as bored as I was, and in a quite relaxed manner mentioned how we could always have some fun together. Meaning, of course, in a more sexual way. I was a little surprised, but not exactly shocked by the suggestion. Normally I wuld have declined, but I suppose that I was feling particularly bored as well as uninhibited, because I presented myself as interested.

The next thing that I knew, the two of us were naked and engaging in some of the nicest sex that I had ever had. I was genuinely surprised to find this so appealingly female. Susan admitted to liking being occasionally bisexual with a woman friend, and of course for me it was all new. Yet, I had no difficulty in responding and participating.

This has now happily been going on between us for the last six months, and I honestly am starting to wonder if I didn’t have some lesbian tendencies which I was unaware of. Is this normal for woman to find it exciting to be sexually engaging with another woman? Or does this really indicated lesbian behavior or is it merely bisexual? I am a bit puzzled. Does anyone out there have any advice?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 1, 2020 at 11:05 AM

I think that tis is an age old question. I know that when I chanced to have my first bisexual experince with another woman several yars ago, I was asking myself the same thing. Was I a secret lesbian becasue I enjoyed having sex with another woman?
Well, I finally deciced that to be a lesbian you really had to be attracted to other women, and not merely interested in just hvaing some fun. So since then I have have just thought of myself as being occassionally bisexual and believe me, I have had some of he best times and I cefrtainly enjoy and delight in having the opportunities for somealternative fun. And yes, this is definitely on the rise and becoming much, much more common.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 3, 2020 at 5:57 AM

So it's up to you really. All the term bi sexual means is that you are attracted to men and women. It's not something you turn on and off, it's something you are born with. Being a Lesbian means you are only sexually attracted to women and that you are also a woman. You are also born like that. There is a third option called bi curious, which is a label you can use when you are just wanting to exprament and try new things out. So it's up to you and where you are at. Just make sure that if you go with the lesbian label, that you are for sure not attracted to men. The Lesbian community has a big issue with men trying to "be straight for their cock" as if they can just turn their gayness off. Saying that you are a lesbian but then sleeping with men can be harmful to other lesbians in the future. Other than that, have at it and good luck discovering yourself!

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