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Not Satisfied In Bed

This isn't a happy or sexy confession like so many others here. I am just frustrated with my partner in bed. I am rarely, if ever, satisfied after we are intimate. He doesn't make me cum and I have to do it myself after he is finished. I have tried multiple times and in multiple ways to tell him what I need. I tell him not to go straight for my nipples or to just carelessly finger me. I tell him I want more foreplay and that I want to be seduced. I exaggerate when he does things that make me feel good so that he can clearly see I like something he's doing. I play with him in the way I want him to play with me so he can see what I want. I have even gotten so tired that I tell him to look up what other people say about sex because maybe he will get it if he hears it from multiple people with female bodies. STILL, he doesn't do any of that. I am so frustrated that I don't even notice how long it is between the times we have sex anymore. I am tired of trying to explain to and teach him.
I love him so much, but I am so tired...

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# 46884 - by Tiki / August 12, 2020
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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 12, 2020 at 10:45 PM

I see that for you sex is all about what you want. You expect to be seduced. Seduce is defined as entice someone into sexual activity. So why do you have to be enticed? Why do you expect your partner to do all the work? Why are you so fucking selfish?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 13, 2020 at 12:06 AM

Maybe go with him to a store and buy some toys. Buy some lube. Makes wonders.
Buy some visuals and tell him you want to experience. Even starting with you madturbating before him can boost your love life. Ask him what you could do better. Maybe he also wants more. I would really go all in cause ulyou can't go on like that. Unfulfilled sex life leads to stupid choices

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 13, 2020 at 12:42 AM

Original poster here, first off I appriciate the helpful suggestion of looking into more stuff for our bedroom life. We have talked before about getting more stuff, but I am really shy about going into a sex shop or even just buying something like lube in a general store. Thank you. I wanted to vent my feelings, but advice is always appreciated.
Second off (to the other commenter), I do not know who hurt you so badly that you feel the need to berate someone in the comments when they are venting frustration about an overall happy, healthy, and functional relationship but going off at me will not fix it. For your information, this rant talks about my frustrations because that is what I was feeling. I did not think it was necessary to say that I am the one that does the seducing most days and would like it reciprocated. Everyone wants to feel desired and like they are worth seducing. I do quite a bit for my partner including paying attention to his body language to figure out what he does and does not like so I can remember it later. I try many things in the bedroom he says he wants and tell him when I am uncomfortable with something. Your assumption that wanting to be seduced somehow means I am selfish in bed and make my partner do all the work tells me a lot about how you view relationships. For some reason, you view having sexuality and desires as being selfish without knowing the entire story. I would suggest speaking to someone to find the root cause of your toxic viewpoint before it ruins any potential relationship you may have.

Again, thank you to the comment that gave helpful advice.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 19, 2020 at 5:43 PM

Understand what you mean, same way for me. I thought women loved foreplay, I could do it for hours, but she wants me to jump on top of her and make her cum. I get that, but it would be a lot more enjoyable to lead up to it, get her really really horny till she can't stand it then go for it. Its so boring and repetitive that I almost would rather just take care of myself.

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