Gay Male / 47
Embracing My True Self
I was married for 17 years but differences in political views eventually caused us tot take our separate paths. After the divorce I accepted an Army buddy's invitation to move to Santiago, Puerto Rico. My communications specialist background and his introductions landed me a job with the local police department.
The freedom of starting a new life, this time investigating my bi side. From around the fourth grade I have enjoyed sex with another not or man as I grew older. It was only after my enlistment that I went all in straight, mostly because I was with my wife. My freedom led me down to the restaurants and bars of the tourist area. It was there that I struck up a conversation with a man in Santiago on business. We had dinner, a bar, a few beers, and back to my new apartment.
The sex was excellent, he heard my story and was more than happy to help me get back in the swing of things. Unlike a quick BJ he was interested is something more serious. He traveled to Santiago at least once a month, we became friends and lovers, I respected his wish for exclusivity, he respected it too. After eight months he accepted a posting in Santiago with his company and we are considering getting married.
My kids and my exwife, are in denial. Their problem.
The freedom of starting a new life, this time investigating my bi side. From around the fourth grade I have enjoyed sex with another not or man as I grew older. It was only after my enlistment that I went all in straight, mostly because I was with my wife. My freedom led me down to the restaurants and bars of the tourist area. It was there that I struck up a conversation with a man in Santiago on business. We had dinner, a bar, a few beers, and back to my new apartment.
The sex was excellent, he heard my story and was more than happy to help me get back in the swing of things. Unlike a quick BJ he was interested is something more serious. He traveled to Santiago at least once a month, we became friends and lovers, I respected his wish for exclusivity, he respected it too. After eight months he accepted a posting in Santiago with his company and we are considering getting married.
My kids and my exwife, are in denial. Their problem.
