Do yourself a favor, give him yours.
Now, what the hell does that mean?
Jealous white chic I presume? What? You upset and amazed some of the white guys are not choosing your kind these days?
I'm a black female. For the last 5 years, I was upset by the large number of black men dating white females. My white friends said I was racist and jealous. I really worked hard to accept these interracial relationships. After a while, I realized that I WAS afraid that I would never find love if all the brothers went after white girls. However, I recently started dating a white guy. He's a gorgeous Italian-American hunk and the best lover I've ever had. Ironically my white friends have started expressing doubt about my interracial relationships. I've heard everything from "He's Italian, he won't marry a non-Italian girl who's not a virgin" to "He's from Bensonhurst, do you really think he'll ever take you home to meet his parents?" When I tell them that they're being jealous and racist, they deny it and get mad.
I can't believe that white male/black female relationships are really different from black male/white female relationships. That's just what my friends want me to believe. Right?
Hey girl. I am still trying to get over seeing so many BM/WF relations. Its unfairly unbalanced, that's my problem with it, not that I am "racist". I do wish to see more White men and other men with Black women. Media and stereotypes have so much to do with this... Its a shame.
Don't listen to them, there are a lot of white women out there that think they are the shit because they have access to ALL men of different races. They hate to see when a good White guy is with a black or Asian woman. I feel there are a lot of White and Asian men out there that like Black women but don't have the courage to make that step, media stereotypes and "mom".
**NOTE**
I think Black women are more warm and accepting towards white women and having a white "Betty" in the family, that's why our son can bring them home. White women are not that accepting with a black "Ashanna" in the family, that's one of the reasons why white boys don't go that route. It's amazing you will also find the white woman that have "biracial" kids will drop dead if anyone refers to them as "Black" and God forbid their little black son brings home a black girlfriend. Who's really the racist woman? Get my point?
My mom is white, but growing up I really wasn't aware of it because she is half Italian half Jewish with really curly hair and naturally olive skin. SHe never refered to us as anything but black (People were "black" then, not African-American). I have no idea what my black granmother thought in 1969 when my dad brought this white Jersey girl home, but they always had a very close relationship, even after my parents divorced and my dad remarried a black woman.
The problem came when my brother met his trailer trash white girlfriend from South Baltimore. She has real racial issues despite having only dated black men and even told my brother that their kids would be prettier than the son she had with another black man because of my brother's "good" hair (i.e. curly) and nice features (i.e. more Italian than African nose).
And then she wonders why we don't want to spend time with her.
Hey good for you. My wife of 2 years is black. We are planning to start a family this year.
Hey thats great for you, I would like to date black girls myself. I wish there were more black girls with white guys.
To all of you: Why does race matter so much? People from different races are still people. If two people want to be together, then they should be, regardless of race. We need to stop thinking people are different because their skin's a different shade or they (or their ancestors) came from a different country. We're all the same.
Man, you are in for one rude awakning.
Im a 17 year old black girl and i dont care what race a man is at all...i dont care if you're black as night or white as snow, just as long as im attracted to him and he's attracted to me.
Though, the thing that bugs me about some black men who date other races, is that fact when they feel like they have to bash black women, as a whole, using words like "black women are..." cause this phrase is referd to the girls they were with in the past..not black girls in general.Hopefully this makes sense, but in my oppinion a black man or anyone at that can love whoever this like,however dont feel the need to
bash us black women.
