my guy friend makes homophobic comments and seems to only date girls that he thinks makes him look cool but he never seems to really feel happy about being w/ them. and he leaves a trail of confused upset girls in his wake. and he's got wierd anger issues. I'm wondering if he is really a jerk or really gay. I'm thinking gay. but maybe lots of straight guys act like this and I don't realise it. (i'm a girl who has luckily dated mostly guys who were pretty kind and pleasingly unconventional- so the way he is acting now is kind of unfmiliar to me)