Not As Open Minded As I Thought

Last year I met a girl in Freshman English. We started hanging out, studying together till she popped the old kiss on the cheek. After getting close and personal she whispers in my ear. She has sex with her brother, hope I don't mind.

I did mind. It blew my mind. First I mind she has sex with someone else. Second I mind it is with a guy. But third I really mind that it's her brother who is jumping her bones. I'm liberal, open minded, but not that open minded.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 30, 2020 at 1:37 PM

It happens more often than you think. If it's just casual for you and there was no long term love lost, Just quietly walk away. If you really like her, talk about it. It's an entanglement, but she might want to work her way out of it and just be looking for a steady normal relationship to save her. Depends if you want to help her work through the emotions or not.

I know of someone going through something similar. Right now it's new and exciting, but I think there will need to be an exit strategy so that everyone can feel whole. Yes, holiday dinners could be awkward knowing the past, but again, are you willing to work through those emotions for the person?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 30, 2020 at 6:45 PM

I'm in the middle between two brothers so I grew up bathing and sleeping next to brothers. We explored each other only slightly. My then bff loved to do sleepovers at each others houses. One night I woke up and realized there was another person in our bed. It was really dark but I figured out it was my bff's brother. They were sneakily doing something that seemed like sex. Like me, they were under the covers so I wasn't positive but I was sure enough to feel floored. We were both too young for sex, I thought. Horrified, I faked still being a sleep and eventually was. I became more sensitive and after that night I noticed most night either, she snuck to his room or he snuck in, after they thought I was asleep.

It took a long time to get the guts to talk to her about it. She said she knew it was wrong and terrible and cried but he was too strong to stop and when she called for help in the past it brought so much family drama that she didn't think it was worth the drama and just lets him. She also made it sound like, by letting him bed her, she was protecting her other sisters by being the only one he did that to. She had pride in her role as protector of her sisters and was thankful he choose her and not one of the other sisters. By the end of our talk she made it sound almost normal. Her brother explained to her that once she got married she'd be doing that daily so she might as get used to it. They were the only sexually active kids I knew. The thing was, I saw her in the act and sneaking off to his room. She looked eager and willing.

Way later I was at a summer sleep a way camp and was blabbing secrets with the other girls in my cabin. Most of the girls had m****tation horror stories. When it was my turn I lied and stole some of my bff's story but limited it to giving bj's. Most of my cabin didn't think that was much of a big deal as half of us claimed that they at least tried that on their brothers up to one of them admitted they both traded oral often. That same one claimed she did anal with her brother because she didn't want to lose her virginity to her brother. I was shocked as I had been lying and wondered if they had been too.

After I was married a while and told my husband basically about the above. He admitted he grew up trading oral with his sister. They stopped when they hit puberty. So I guess it is more common than I ever thought but... eww.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 2, 2020 at 11:59 PM

My brother and I were like friends with benefits. When I turned 13 he was 15 and I coerced him to fuck me. When he went to college, I stayed with him during homecoming at his university. We shared the bed but it was a bunk bed. We pretended to sleep at opposite ends so his roommate wouldn't know. At night I blamed on top of him and we fucked.
We fucked to hard and shook the bed! The boyfriend jumped down and turned on the light. "DUDE!!" he whisper-yells, "she's your sister." We laugh and explain we've done it for years. Long story short I climb on the roommate and ride him.

Fast forward. I went to the same university. I'd meet up with them often, they shared a two bed apartment so we could do our threesome in private.

Even later after college. I married the roommate! We sre still happily married today! We eventually stopped the threesome but are still very close with my brother.

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