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Dating Disasters
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Straight Female / 27
A Sad Story, A Huge Mistake
After college, without a job, I returned home until I got my stuff together. My mom got me a job at a daycare. Surprisingly I liked it a lot more than anyone thought. I got attached to a little girl whose mother had died in a drowning on a camping trip. Her father worked at the bank.
Things went along, I started dating her father, we got married and I had my own baby. All was well, except I knew I had made a huge mistake. I was not in love with him, my feelings for my now stepdaughter had clouded my judgement. My husband was very controlling, he had definite idea of a woman's place, he was not affectionate at all.
In time I put 2 and 2 together, he had a 'friend', and they rode motorcycles together. Somehow I figured out my husband was gay. He is gay, but realizing that was a bombshell. Sure I got divorced, I have custody of both children. He has child support garnished and I am back with my parents.
I can't ever know what really happened to his first wife.
Things went along, I started dating her father, we got married and I had my own baby. All was well, except I knew I had made a huge mistake. I was not in love with him, my feelings for my now stepdaughter had clouded my judgement. My husband was very controlling, he had definite idea of a woman's place, he was not affectionate at all.
In time I put 2 and 2 together, he had a 'friend', and they rode motorcycles together. Somehow I figured out my husband was gay. He is gay, but realizing that was a bombshell. Sure I got divorced, I have custody of both children. He has child support garnished and I am back with my parents.
I can't ever know what really happened to his first wife.


