You Have To Adapt
Fuck yeah my friend! Have similar age and medication ED. My sweet wife can always get me off with her mouth and one thing that I really really love is kissing and tonguing her sweet ass.
Cannot get enough of frenching her butt.
Yep same here in my 60's stop fucking the wife because it dose not get hard even with the meds. 10 years ago had a diabetic coma left poor blood flow and some nerve damage so no more hard-on's. I do cum soft. Talked wife into cuckolding me. She finely did with a young stud and a big cock. I watched as he pleasured her the way I use to. I had all kinds of mix emotions from jealousy, hurt, excitement, thrilling, turned on, and wanting his cock. Anyway she fucks other guys and I watch or if the guy is ok with it join in. As time went on I became more feminine with her blessing. It's not for everyone but we enjoy it. She calls me her faggot sissy bitch and I get to dress love it
I have found many men turn to other men for relief as we get older. I have three friends I suck with regularly. We are all senior citizens.
Also in my 60s and like above combo of age and meds keeps me from getting good solid hard ons.
Also agree that sex just for pleasure is best between men. No emotional stuff required just messing about and getting to come.
I'm 65, diabetic and ED. Never forgetting sucking a few cocks in college. I've sucked a half dozen cocks this past year. Blow and go is easy and I just like the feel of the head of cock in my mouth. I had forgotten how smooth and soft it was. I still love to pleasure my wife orally. Her lack of sexual interest motivates me to drain on cock on occasion.