Heres my story...i knew a girl named Casie for 4 years before i met the woman i'm current married to, ironicly enough, also named Kaycie (same name, different spelling). i've alwasy been great friends with the first, and when she lived near me we dated and i've always felt a love for her that i've never had with anyone else before. but then i met my current wife a couple years after casie moved and she had me doing some of the dumbest things i've ever done...joined the army for one...so after knowing her for 5 months i proposed to her, then went to basic training for 6 months, came back and got married 2 months later which i thought was way too soon at the time, but still went through with it. We had only known one another for a little over a year when we got married...and only been physically together for 7 months. well, we've been married since march and now i'm wanting out...it was a huge mistake as i know now i still am in love with casie, just as i always knew i was...why i proposed, i dont know...many of my friends and family members think it was a mistake and many think i did it because kacyie reminds me so much of casie...i'm really at a loss of things to do here...i know i should be going to a real counselor but money is tight so i'm turning here with the off chance that someone insightful says something...