Can't Create A Connection With A Man

I know that it will sound odd for many of you but I am a 31 year old virgin woman because honestly the thought of having sex with a guy freaks me out.Last year I tried to have a relationship with a guy a coworker actually, I thought that he wanted something serious but he only wanted to sleep with me, he was always pushing me to get our relationship to the next level but I was so scared and I saw that his intentions weren't pure and honest and we broke up.
And since then I am all alone, I am aware that I have zero knowledge when it comes to men, I don't really know what men want, I don't know how to behave towards men, I feel that some of them are only attracted to me for my looks and not for the real me, for my soul.
I don't know if any of you get me, I have a problem to create a connection with a guy because I am very shy and reserved, I don't like talking too much and tell to much information about my private life because I feel vulnerable.I feel unsure and insecure and I would like to fix this problem. :(

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# 48852 - by Ava31 / January 8, 2021

by Anonymous on Jan 8, 2021 at 3:16 PM

Rest assured , you have no problem.

There is nothing wrong with you. You aren't ready to sleep around with any Tom, Dick and Harry. You aren't desperate or snooty . I am not suggesting others are but their life styles are different. Their lives are their problems. Are they happy after many relationships or they are pretending to be happy? How many relationships are breaking --look around. Even if they don't , are they staying together for the society, shared finances or the children?
Being alone isn't bad ,feeling lonely is. Nothing's wrong with being a virgin still. You are choosing your life partner wisely, without realizing it.

I will be proud of you for not giving in to normal ( for the body and mind) temptations, despite being a man myself.

Therefore, do not try to fit in. No compromises at all with your principles. And be conscious of your correct actions, never be doubtful.
Get a good job and if you have one already achieve perfection in it to develop more confidence. Once you are self sufficient, you will be smarter. You won't feel like compromising then.

The right man will arrive at the right time and you will be deservedly happy thereafter.

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by Anonymous on Jan 9, 2021 at 1:43 AM

Nobody needs to be given too much information that can be used against you.
On the one hand, you are cautious and on the other you are staying away not only from predators but also from good people.
Best way out will be to have real well wishers, relatives who are discerning and true friends who will suggest a prospective groom for you-a safe filtering process.

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by Anonymous on Jan 9, 2021 at 4:19 AM

I’m older and a real man, I feel sorry for younger women today because weak men as dads, mostly raised by moms, and women have raised the men you have to choose from today, it’s sad what is considered a man today, mostly boy girls......
But if you find yourself a regular guy, he can think on his own,not a follower ,a leader, you will be at the right place, be yourself, open up like a flower, you only get as good as you give, when it comes to sex,men will alway want and truly need it, don’t use it as a tool to get what you want, explore your own body ,find the pleasure spots and guide your man to those places, love him,and share the many true pleasures of love making, sex is not dirty in any way, amazing between lovers, be safe, respect and demand respect, role play for fun, always try to keep it fun,sexy, not boring, if your sex life gets boring he will stray, keep yourself desirable and require the same of him, always dress and keep yourself as you are going out on the town, it’s self respect, and your man will always desire you, have self confidence, enjoy but don’t be afraid, good luck girl

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