Not "Heebert", It's "Aybear"

While I was living in California I met and got into a relationship with a Japanese American girl from San Mateo, California. Leave aside her politics, I am from Louisiana, she had the California attitudes that made her both sexually adventurous and sexually prude at the same time. Everything was about her, how did she feel afterwards. In Louisiana we have nice girls and they are more into making sure that the guy is taken care of, and they understand that cooking means cooking. This Japanese girl, her idea of lunch was going out.

I'm not saying that sex with her was bad, it wasn't. It was the focus on herself that drove me away. I literally handed her a mirror and told her to have fun. I'm back in Monroe and I have a nice Cajun girl who talks about kids. Refreshing.