You are good woman and a great wife! Your husband is a lucky man! I've been promising my husband I would be into a 3sum but I don't know if I can muster up the courage.
Any advice?
Do you ladies desire to cuckold your husband? Be a hotwife? Swing with selected singles or couples?
Oh. Sure. Of course. You want all of the above, the variants and more. Can hubby handle naughty you?
The best advice I can give is to discuss boundaries or rules (dos and don't) beforehand. Make sure both of you feel comfortable with the person as well. But most importantly, stay in contact with each other throughout the whole experience and communicate before, during, and afterwards.
Has it always been the same guy he's shared you with? Or have all of the threesome guest cocks been attached to different guys so you don't have the chance to develop emotional bonds with the visitor?
Does your husband ever get reciprocal access to the wives of the guys he shares you with or is this a one way kink with him getting off on watching his 'faithful' wife sucking strange cock and getting drilled by another man?
I was the "other guy" in an mmf situation. I knew one of them in the past so that made the situation a whole lot better for us, that we could be trusted and wasn't some creepy stranger.
For the most part hubby would stay in the same room and rarely leave us alone. But there were a few times when she and I would be going at it where hubby would feel left out, so I always tried to keep that in mind, since either one of them getting upset could end the fun forever.
From the other guy perspective it was challenging to keep them both happy, I felt like I was walking on eggshells a lot of the time, plus you have to sexually satisfy the wife otherwise she would obviously lose interest.
As far as emotional attachment, yes there were a few times when I would start to feel a tweak of that but you push it aside and remind yourself you are their sex toy, other than that they pretty much have little interest in you. Cold, but true.
The biggest advice I would give you is make sure that person is compatible that you could be friends with. A lot of times we would just sit around and talk and have fun. Course it would mostly be nude and she would mostly be sitting next to me us groping each other, lol.
I loved having a slutty reputation and I did stuff like threesomes and worse and didn't care who knew. When I felt like it was time to settle down I had a hard time improving my reputation so much I moved a few times.
I met my husband and got married. I tried to keep my past a secret from him but he started learning more over time. He gets excited hearing about my past and wants me to do that stuff with him too. He must have done a lot of searching because he started finding pics and vid of me in the past. I was both horrified and aroused. We have children now and I don't want my reputation to suck again or our kids to see it, so I keep that talk to just bedroom talk.
I've got really mixed feelings on actually doing anything like I did in the past again. I REALLY liked the stuff I did but I really don't want him to know just how naughty I used to be or can get.
Commenter #6,
Are there grandparents available to watch the kids for a night or two? Is the price of a mid-level motel in reach financially? If the answer to both questions is 'yes', you might consider organizing a threesome [or more if your husband thinks he can handle seeing a really slutty version of you], at a motel 50 or 100 miles away so you won't be playing in your own backyard.
I obviously don't know your kink level, or your husband's, so that's something the two of you need to discuss long and hard [pun intended] during those late night fantasy chats in your bedroom. Doe he want to start slow? Maybe do an amateur or paid FFM threesome so he can see you with another woman. Or an MFM one if he's really into the idea of seeing you with one [hung] other man?
What of the video and pictures from your past has captivated him the most? What of it does he talk about? What does he go back to time after time when he's looking for material to turn him on?
Find a man that is attractive to you then ask your husband if the two of you could invite him over for some adult fun. Have a few drinks, relax, start flirting with both. Soon, they'll be hot for ya.
