Bi-Affair

I am thirty-six years old, never married, slightly overweight and chunky, and I know that I have suffered from low self-esteem for all sorts of obvious reasons. No surprise there.
A year ago I had a lesbian affair I guess you would call it, although really it was probably more a bisexual fling. It was with another woman my age and also a bit on the chunky side. It only last for two months, and then she left because of work. But it was the most exciting couple of months that I had ever had in my entire life. It was such an exciting friendship and I couldn’t wait to get naked with her and be loving like we were.
When it ended in a way I was kind of glad because I really did not want to become a lesbian as such and think of my future being spent necessarily with another woman. I really do like men. Yet, because of this I did get to explore my inner woman as they say, and found that I am probably more open to female sex and enjoyment even as just as casual thing. My self-esteem has definitely gone up and I have been so much happier about myself and everything.
Still, we do seemed to be living in an age where such things are more open and acceptable and I’m glad.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 30, 2021 at 3:42 PM

Be happy and proud of what and who you are.You don't owe anyone any explanations as long as you don't you don't hurt anyone or devastate the society around you.
You have every right to be happy though I have a bit of an advice for you.
For your own sake, in order to enjoy life to the fullest without any self invited health issues, lose weight under medical supervision.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 30, 2021 at 3:49 PM

I rwad your story and it could very much be mine. I am not overweight, but twenty-nineyears old and just - well, average and unmarried. It's not that I desperately want to be married, but I am starting to feel at that age where it's like I have been left on the shelf, and nost of my friends are married.
But last year I had a bisexual fling with someone from work, and it was absolutel delightful and wonderful. No, I had never imagined myself doing this with another women, but with her it just worked out and was easy.
It was hardly a serious love afaiir, but the sex was exciting and great, and we both had the best time. The problem and why it didn;t continue was that she was married. But now, thanks to that, I feel quite renewed and very happy with my life. It was suddenly likea door open or a ligth went off in my head, and I now no longer feel quite so dull or ordinary.
I am happy for you for it sounds very much like the same experience.
Take crae. Love.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 30, 2021 at 8:53 PM

To the 2nd responder--

It's not at all late and you aren't left on any shelf to worry over shelf life.
The right person hasn't arrived.When he does, be happy.
Now, coming to your lesbian lover.She is married so there can't be any jealousy leading to blackmail which will deny you marriage.
If she does try, confidently accept as many women go through it temporarily and being heterosexual by inclination, do marry a man.If desired without anyone knowing or with both husbands consenting, continue.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 3, 2021 at 5:53 AM

I didnt get married until your age but ikwym. After school and all your friends are married and you feel like the fifth wheel. Dont give up, get out there best you can, and be flirty if you see someone who interests you. As far as other girls if you are with a guy I doubt any man would be opposed to you including a woman in your physical relationship even if all he gets to do is watch. I know I wish my SO enjoyed being with another woman.

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