Is It A Woman's Issue

Do women like themselves naked? I am self conscious even when I'm alone. Being stripped is very uncomfortable. I angst about what clothes to wear, how my hair wears, my nails. My man friend has suggested a nude cruise or a nude resort so I can see what other women really look like. I know, I don't need to be naked in front of strangers.

Even being stripped under the covers gives me anxiety.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 3, 2021 at 2:35 AM

Rest assured, you are not wrong and it's your prerogative to or to not be naked even while alone.
You don't have be in a nudist's resort to get over this rather unusual inhibition ( unusual as you are uncomfortable even under sheets).
The remedy isn't going nude in public whether in a nudist resort or elsewhere but very delicately managing it with a female psychiatrist who will not just be a professional but a compassionate person.Easier said than done and yet I am hopeful.
On the other hand, if it's something close to a low self esttem, you may try to assert to and convince yourself you are fine.All women are beautiful in their own way.Never compare yourself with others as others don't have something that you have.
Best luck.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 4, 2021 at 6:45 PM

I'm over 40 now.

When I was under 20 years old, I was very self-conscious. I thought I was ugly and I thought this and that was wrong in my body. That's perfectly normal and every one suffers from it.

It lasted to thirties. When I had found porn and from around 2005 - 2010 could saw normal, ordinary people, men and women (it was time when internet became more available to people to really show themselves) I got more used to it but it wasn't that easy.

Now I don't care.

But I think it might be good to get some professional help, because I never felt self conscious when I was alone and never when I was under covers in bed and never when having sex or getting ready to sex.

I agree with #1, unless you don't want it to happen, I wouldn't encourage you to go to nudist resort to get "help". It might help, something like when taking off bandaid, but how you explained your problem, it may cause major anxiety attack too and then your whole holiday will be ruined.

You know, this is funny thing.

I always felt that I was the ugly one among my friends and collagues. Some time ago we talked about it and one of my friends, who I had always thought she is the most beautiful woman ever, said that she always thought I was the most beautiful and thought she was the most ugly.

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