Discovery Of Self, Too

I found the entry "Discovery of Self" to be so beuatiful and I could relate to it entirely. In fact, it is my story, as well.

I was in my thirties and married and, to be honest, feeling bored and a bit trapped. I met another woman my own age, who was divorced, and we had a bisxeual affair. It lasted for about six months (she moved away for work). I found this to be like a breath of fersh air in my life. Although I will admit that I was cheating on my husband, lthough in many ways I didnt feel ike it becasue I was doing this with another woman. So some conveninet justification there. That, and the fact that my husband just could not offer me the same thing as realistically no man can when it comes down to it.

I had never done anything like this with another female, even when I was young, so I was surprised by msyelf for even dong this. But it was like my eyes were opened for the first time, and it was so easy and wonderful!

I can't say that the two of us were madly in love or anything like that. But we did like each other as friends and felt close in that way, and being intimate sexually only strengthned that.
But suddenly I found msyelf fucking with another woman, of all things, and it was like being reborn. And before that I naively didn't know that two women really could fuck. I was under the imprssion that you needed a penis for that. I have since found out differently.

Anyway, she evntually moved away and we lost touch and I went back to my marriage and disatisfaction. Finally I reached the point where I wanted a divorce and that was what happened. I began a new life and everything suddenly seemed so happily open to me. I began to date men and other women, and again happily not with any seriousness. I just feel entirely comfortable with my bisexuality as see this an addition to my life and to my enjoyment. And beloeve me, I had had no difficult in meeting so many like-minded woman.
And no, I really do not think of msyelf as being a lesbian. I have been with a few, and they are, for me anyway, just too onesided and the ones that I have known all want to play some sort of control game. So I'm really not intesrted in being a lesbian, but having a to-do with another like-minded woman - I'm all for it!
So to any women out there who are curious, I would say try it. If it's with a friend that you know and feel comfortable with, and you are both just doing it for fun and enjoyment, why not give it a go? You migth just b surrpised. But if you feel too unsure, if it is at all uncomfortable or you feel forced, then my advice would be to avoid it. The time is just not right. But, and this is only aguess on my part, I would say that about threee-quaretrs of all women out there are open to bsiexuality.
I know and have been surprsied.