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Dating Disasters
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Straight Male / 52
She Wanted It Without Pleasure
In my early 30s I put a personal ad in a paper, and got only one answer, from a Vietnames-American woman, Linh, who lived in the suburbs. We spoke on the phone a little, though her English was halting so this didn't go very far. Still, I was in a dry dating spell so I agreed to meet up with her. I came to her split-level ranch house in an ordinary subdivision, where her two young kids (about 1 and 3) ran around the house while we talked in the living room. ordered pizza to eat in the nearly-empty house and I was there an hour or two. It was clear we had nothing in common, and I had no idea why she answered my ad. She was barely over 4 feet high, with short, dark, crinkly hair, and I learned she was separated from her husband and worked a retail job.
Realizing this was going nowhere, I decided I had nothing to lose and got bold, asking her about kissing; she said that people in her culture rarely kissed. So probably they don't do much oral sex either, then? She didn't know what I meant, so I demonstrated by kneeling in front of her on the couch and explaining about licking the genitals, or sucking the penis if we reversed positions. Oh no, she said, we don't do that. Ok, well that was that then, and I soon went home.
She called me again a few days later and asked if I could visit. I asked if she was open to trying oral sex, and she said yes. So 20 minutes later I was in her house again, and suggested we try it on the bed. I again first demonstrated by having her sit on the edge and me kneeling in front, but she had no interest in receiving so I asked her to reverse positions with me, after first sucking on her finger and thumb to show her what she should do. It was exciting seeing her kneeling in front of me, but before I went further I asked if she was really ok with doing this. She said yes, so I unzipped my jeans and in just a couple seconds had my hard cock pointing at her face. After a short hesitation she began sucking me, and with only modest instruction about the speed and technique, it was soon feeling fantastic, even though she was clearly inexperienced. She could barely get my penis in her mouth, and at first just sucked on the head, though eventually she could get about 2 inches in at most, but this was enough to feel hot and wonderful. She never looked up at me, and I found myself gazing around this strange situation, getting a blowjob from an Asian woman in a nondescript suburban home with kids in the next room with her estranged husband god knows where. This went on at least 20 minutes, and while it felt good there was no way she knew how to make me orgasm, so I got her on her back on bed so I could lean over her, alternating thrusting into her mouth with pulling out and rubbing my cock over her little face and jacking off towards her lips. I told her I was going to ejaculate but I'm not sure if she understood, she just passively followed my instructions and let me do what I wanted until I suddenly started spewing my white cum across her light brown skin. Her composure instantly turned to one of utter disgust and revulsion, and tried to turn away but couldn't go far with me on top of her, where I continued jerking off my semen onto her until I finished with a beautiful clump of cum streaks on her lips and cheeks.
I soon went home and figured I'd never hear from her again--but I did! She kept calling me and asking me to visit, when I did when I felt like cumming. Sometimes she would feed me more pizza or some rice dish, always I would have some orgasm, where again she willingly accepted me into her mouth as if she was perfectly ok with it, though getting absolutely disgusted by the inevitable cum. I asked if she was ok with my doing this, and she said that I should do what I wanted to, "even if I say I don't want it." She clearly had a very submissive role in her culture, and I admit I was taking advantage of this.
She did eventually ask me to put it "inside" and while I preferred blowjobs, I did this too, sometimes fucking her from behind in the living room, even though her children occasionally saw this. Another time I did the missionary position, but she was so small I found I could push her legs entirely over her body to support me, and they barely came to my shoulders while her head was well under my neck and I could only see the top of her hair. It felt to me like I was fucking a blow-up doll who just passively lay back as I thrust into her. She showed no signs of enjoying this at all, but I tried to delay cumming as much as I could to prolong my use of her wet pussy. Finally I ejaculated hard into her c**t, spurting several times before I did some more post-cum thrusting.
She could never make me cum, but twice I was able to cum in her mouth by pumping her head. This occurred when she called me for a ride to or from work, and I agreed on the condition that she would suck me off in the car. The first time we parked in the far end of a Target lot, and she bent over my pelvis so I could pump her head up and down, then hold it in place while I ejaculated, which (fortunately for both of us) didn't take very long. She quickly opened the door to spit my disgusting cum out of her mouth before I took her home. Another time we stopped in a deserted lot in a city park, only this time a younger MF couple drove in to park as I was pumping Linh head up and down on my cock. She heard the car but I told her not to stop and pumped harder; my eyes met that of the couple, and they probably already guessed what was happening but parked on the other side of the small lot and started unloading their bicycles at the trail head there. Again I had the wonderful feeling of cumming in a woman's mouth while I held her head in place, moving it exactly the way I wanted it to during my intense pulsing, while she pushed away a little but not too hard. Finally I let her go and she sat up while I started the car. We only moved a short distance before she mumbled and pointed to her mouth, so I stopped at the lot exit and put the car in park so she could again open the door and spit my cum out on the ground. I'm not sure if the other couple saw us because I immediately kept going.
This went on with variations for about 6 months, then less frequently over the next two years. Part of that time I had another American girlfriend, and felt guilty about seeing Linh while dating her, but during a time when my new gf wasn't into sex for a while and I felt frustrated I again went back to Linh for a blowjob or two. Finally she told me a couple times she didn't want to do this anymore so I left her alone.
Years later I looked her up online, and found that she had gotten pregnant by another American male, but pretended she had been r**ed so she could get money from the county, and had just been convicted of fraud and child endangerment. This confirmed my suspicion that she was trying to get pregnant in order to get support from either me or the government. She never asked if I was fertile, and in fact had a vasectomy years before I met her, so I escaped this entrapment. I'm not proud of what I did with her, but it was also entirely consensual, at least if you can believe her words. Maybe I shouldn't have believed her, but in a sense we were both using each other when neither of us had any better options. She let me took several good pictures and even videos of her sucking me or with cum on her face, so I'll always remember this weird if only partially satisfying sexual experience.
Realizing this was going nowhere, I decided I had nothing to lose and got bold, asking her about kissing; she said that people in her culture rarely kissed. So probably they don't do much oral sex either, then? She didn't know what I meant, so I demonstrated by kneeling in front of her on the couch and explaining about licking the genitals, or sucking the penis if we reversed positions. Oh no, she said, we don't do that. Ok, well that was that then, and I soon went home.
She called me again a few days later and asked if I could visit. I asked if she was open to trying oral sex, and she said yes. So 20 minutes later I was in her house again, and suggested we try it on the bed. I again first demonstrated by having her sit on the edge and me kneeling in front, but she had no interest in receiving so I asked her to reverse positions with me, after first sucking on her finger and thumb to show her what she should do. It was exciting seeing her kneeling in front of me, but before I went further I asked if she was really ok with doing this. She said yes, so I unzipped my jeans and in just a couple seconds had my hard cock pointing at her face. After a short hesitation she began sucking me, and with only modest instruction about the speed and technique, it was soon feeling fantastic, even though she was clearly inexperienced. She could barely get my penis in her mouth, and at first just sucked on the head, though eventually she could get about 2 inches in at most, but this was enough to feel hot and wonderful. She never looked up at me, and I found myself gazing around this strange situation, getting a blowjob from an Asian woman in a nondescript suburban home with kids in the next room with her estranged husband god knows where. This went on at least 20 minutes, and while it felt good there was no way she knew how to make me orgasm, so I got her on her back on bed so I could lean over her, alternating thrusting into her mouth with pulling out and rubbing my cock over her little face and jacking off towards her lips. I told her I was going to ejaculate but I'm not sure if she understood, she just passively followed my instructions and let me do what I wanted until I suddenly started spewing my white cum across her light brown skin. Her composure instantly turned to one of utter disgust and revulsion, and tried to turn away but couldn't go far with me on top of her, where I continued jerking off my semen onto her until I finished with a beautiful clump of cum streaks on her lips and cheeks.
I soon went home and figured I'd never hear from her again--but I did! She kept calling me and asking me to visit, when I did when I felt like cumming. Sometimes she would feed me more pizza or some rice dish, always I would have some orgasm, where again she willingly accepted me into her mouth as if she was perfectly ok with it, though getting absolutely disgusted by the inevitable cum. I asked if she was ok with my doing this, and she said that I should do what I wanted to, "even if I say I don't want it." She clearly had a very submissive role in her culture, and I admit I was taking advantage of this.
She did eventually ask me to put it "inside" and while I preferred blowjobs, I did this too, sometimes fucking her from behind in the living room, even though her children occasionally saw this. Another time I did the missionary position, but she was so small I found I could push her legs entirely over her body to support me, and they barely came to my shoulders while her head was well under my neck and I could only see the top of her hair. It felt to me like I was fucking a blow-up doll who just passively lay back as I thrust into her. She showed no signs of enjoying this at all, but I tried to delay cumming as much as I could to prolong my use of her wet pussy. Finally I ejaculated hard into her c**t, spurting several times before I did some more post-cum thrusting.
She could never make me cum, but twice I was able to cum in her mouth by pumping her head. This occurred when she called me for a ride to or from work, and I agreed on the condition that she would suck me off in the car. The first time we parked in the far end of a Target lot, and she bent over my pelvis so I could pump her head up and down, then hold it in place while I ejaculated, which (fortunately for both of us) didn't take very long. She quickly opened the door to spit my disgusting cum out of her mouth before I took her home. Another time we stopped in a deserted lot in a city park, only this time a younger MF couple drove in to park as I was pumping Linh head up and down on my cock. She heard the car but I told her not to stop and pumped harder; my eyes met that of the couple, and they probably already guessed what was happening but parked on the other side of the small lot and started unloading their bicycles at the trail head there. Again I had the wonderful feeling of cumming in a woman's mouth while I held her head in place, moving it exactly the way I wanted it to during my intense pulsing, while she pushed away a little but not too hard. Finally I let her go and she sat up while I started the car. We only moved a short distance before she mumbled and pointed to her mouth, so I stopped at the lot exit and put the car in park so she could again open the door and spit my cum out on the ground. I'm not sure if the other couple saw us because I immediately kept going.
This went on with variations for about 6 months, then less frequently over the next two years. Part of that time I had another American girlfriend, and felt guilty about seeing Linh while dating her, but during a time when my new gf wasn't into sex for a while and I felt frustrated I again went back to Linh for a blowjob or two. Finally she told me a couple times she didn't want to do this anymore so I left her alone.
Years later I looked her up online, and found that she had gotten pregnant by another American male, but pretended she had been r**ed so she could get money from the county, and had just been convicted of fraud and child endangerment. This confirmed my suspicion that she was trying to get pregnant in order to get support from either me or the government. She never asked if I was fertile, and in fact had a vasectomy years before I met her, so I escaped this entrapment. I'm not proud of what I did with her, but it was also entirely consensual, at least if you can believe her words. Maybe I shouldn't have believed her, but in a sense we were both using each other when neither of us had any better options. She let me took several good pictures and even videos of her sucking me or with cum on her face, so I'll always remember this weird if only partially satisfying sexual experience.
