Lesson Learned

I had a girlfriend years ago that split up with me because I wasn't aggressive enough in bed.
I had always been taught (by parents, society, etc.) that women WANT the gentleman. That may be true in some cases, but it definitely wasn't in hers.

I thought maybe she had some damage that made her that way, at 1st.

However, I have heard for years since she left me, that MOST women have a "ravish me" desire (or at least fantasy) at some point in their lives, so she isn't so abnormal after all. Good to know, if we ever met back up, maybe I can get her back.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 15, 2021 at 4:23 PM

It seems every case is very individual and she wanted to be "taken roughly".
Feel very sorry for you as at times, older and fine values don't seem to count.
Being Liberated to some means behaving roughly.

Did she never give you a chance to cahnge your perspective while making love or you didn't ask?
Some women complain,at least to their friends, that the husband is very crude and violent instead of being gentle.
So there you go. Very individual preferences.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 15, 2021 at 5:03 PM

I have a female friend, she has a split personality. Socially she is aggressive, dominant, feminist, some would say butch. On a conference trip she got a bit tipsy, she became vocal and aggressive, she pushed my buttons. I slapped her face and told her to shut up. She complained, but sat quietly not saying a word. The evening was ruined, I chose to leave and return to my room. She followed, complaining that I was leaving her alone in a strange place. When we got to her room, she asked me to help her get ready for bed. She let me undress her, until she had nothing on. She wanted a spanking, across her hind quarters, with a belt. A blistering whipping. I don't do pain, I expect respect and cooperation. She put herself on the bed, stressing her legs, raising her hips, her pussy opening like an undersea monster. Her look was like nothing I'd seen, her submission complete. I turned her on her stomach, swatted her rear with my bare hand telling her she was drunk and to get some sleep. Today this friend is compliant, obedient to a fault, she knows to shut up with only a glance on my part. She craves a hard swat on her ass, a hard fuck across her desk, a hard word when she gets out of hand. She says she is a feminist because of men like me, who expect subservience. She gets on her knees, and sucks my cock to let me know she is there to please me.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 15, 2021 at 10:24 PM

Responder#2,
You are very lucky.Got things under control.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 16, 2021 at 12:40 AM

Mine is a quiet and shy type but for whatever deep seated reasons she gets soaked by verbal abuse and a little spanking, slapping and rough handling. I would never hurt her and was also always the gentleman and nice guy all my life. It's hard to find just the right balance and we only do this stuff as play, but I am getting to like the feel of her bare ass against my palm. Everybody's entitled to have their own kinks and if you can find the right partner it's golden.

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