Straight Male / 31
Sometimes You Can Be Surprised.
A few years back I had a bisexual affair with another guy. It’s kind of difficult to say how it got started. We met at a used book store where we would see each other all the time, and we started to become sort of friends.
The two of us were a lot of like, both sort of quiet, and neither of us had a girlfriend or were in a relationship right then. I suppose that we were both feeling somewhat bored, really.
One day he invited me over to his place, which a really nice condo. We sat and had coffee and talked. We discussed relationships, and we both agreed how it was difficult to ever find the right person, and how it would be nice just to have a comfortable relationship without it becoming complicated. And while we were talking we were enjoying the male companionship and finding that nice and rather appealing. Somehow the idea that the two of us should get together and have a relationship was sort of out there, although with neither of us wanting to look gay as we weren’t.
Well, we got together a couple of more times and enjoyed the companionship and finally one day, we managed to somehow agree that it could maybe be discretely more, and we managed to kiss. I had never done that with another guy, but I was surprised that it didn’t seem awkward or strange, but was rather nice. So without actually saying as much, we started having this quiet sort of romantic male-affair. Our getting together was just something that we both looked forward to.
It wasn’t long before we decided that it would be nice to be naked together and sort of sexual. So we tried that, and calmly engaged in mutual masturbation and that was very enjoyable. After that we would get together at his place and enjoy just lounging around naked together, having coffee and a cigarette. Sex was just a part of that, and we became more adventurous and we tried different things like oral and then we had anal sex. It was felt really good enjoying that together. It felt so rewardingly male.
So over the next eight months our relationship began to become a regular thing for the two of us, and we liked being “boyfriends.” It was very relaxed and easy. It was just nice being together without a lot of hassles or complications or even worrying if we were being gay or not. We were just friends was all.
We had been having this affair for just a little over a year when unfortunately the company that he worked for transferred him out to California. Of course that was an enormous disappointment for both of us. So he left and we did stay in touch for a while. But the thing was, as I discovered, in a way I was actually glad that our relationship had come to an end, as I was starting to wonder where it was leading, and if we would end up becoming gay. It had been starting to look like we were headed for having a more permanent type of relationship. We had even talked about becoming roommates. That had been mentioned. It was a nice thought but I wasn’t sure if I wanted to just be with another guy. My basic attraction was still toward females and I actually was beginning to feel like I was trapping myself in something that I didn’t want.
Still, I looked back on this time very fondly and was glad that I had that to enjoy.
The two of us were a lot of like, both sort of quiet, and neither of us had a girlfriend or were in a relationship right then. I suppose that we were both feeling somewhat bored, really.
One day he invited me over to his place, which a really nice condo. We sat and had coffee and talked. We discussed relationships, and we both agreed how it was difficult to ever find the right person, and how it would be nice just to have a comfortable relationship without it becoming complicated. And while we were talking we were enjoying the male companionship and finding that nice and rather appealing. Somehow the idea that the two of us should get together and have a relationship was sort of out there, although with neither of us wanting to look gay as we weren’t.
Well, we got together a couple of more times and enjoyed the companionship and finally one day, we managed to somehow agree that it could maybe be discretely more, and we managed to kiss. I had never done that with another guy, but I was surprised that it didn’t seem awkward or strange, but was rather nice. So without actually saying as much, we started having this quiet sort of romantic male-affair. Our getting together was just something that we both looked forward to.
It wasn’t long before we decided that it would be nice to be naked together and sort of sexual. So we tried that, and calmly engaged in mutual masturbation and that was very enjoyable. After that we would get together at his place and enjoy just lounging around naked together, having coffee and a cigarette. Sex was just a part of that, and we became more adventurous and we tried different things like oral and then we had anal sex. It was felt really good enjoying that together. It felt so rewardingly male.
So over the next eight months our relationship began to become a regular thing for the two of us, and we liked being “boyfriends.” It was very relaxed and easy. It was just nice being together without a lot of hassles or complications or even worrying if we were being gay or not. We were just friends was all.
We had been having this affair for just a little over a year when unfortunately the company that he worked for transferred him out to California. Of course that was an enormous disappointment for both of us. So he left and we did stay in touch for a while. But the thing was, as I discovered, in a way I was actually glad that our relationship had come to an end, as I was starting to wonder where it was leading, and if we would end up becoming gay. It had been starting to look like we were headed for having a more permanent type of relationship. We had even talked about becoming roommates. That had been mentioned. It was a nice thought but I wasn’t sure if I wanted to just be with another guy. My basic attraction was still toward females and I actually was beginning to feel like I was trapping myself in something that I didn’t want.
Still, I looked back on this time very fondly and was glad that I had that to enjoy.
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