Still A Virgin...

I am turning 31 on Friday and I am still a virgin, can you believe it?
I think I have became very picky and a few men please me these days.
I had like 5 dates last month and none of them seem to be the right one for me.
They seem to be interested but I just couldn't have a connection to neither of them.
Some of them were too old they were in their 40 and had a good chat and felt good around them but it was the age gap too big, and the last ones were my age but really immature they only wanted to have fun and just it.
When I was younger I wasn't really sure what kind of men I would want but now as I grew older I just want a serious and mature men, confident who would love for the way I am and don't treat me superficial, I don't like shallow guys.
The guys I was into a lot were married or had a gf or didn't want to commit because they were busy having a stressful job.
The thing is I have everything I want my dream job, a house, but I don't have a man, yikes...this really bugs me for some time I feel kinda unfulfilled, I just hope to find a great guy to love me.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 23, 2021 at 3:46 PM

You arer not alone Lara and don't be careless as Covid is still around and will be for some time.
It's never too late. Why bother if you are destined to be happy only after some time with awonderful man?
Never compare your life to others.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 23, 2021 at 9:45 PM

Never feel guilty about being a virgin at 31.I respect you for not givingbin to your lustful, though natural, instinct.
There is no point giving in and sleep around with many till you zero in one one.
Be confident and always know tgat satisfaction is a decision.

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Mikis_pop

by Mikis_pop on Mar 24, 2021 at 1:12 AM

My friend's daughter did the same, like you. Finally, now in her 40s, she has found a friend, the relationship is slowly developing, and she is now pregnant.
In the 40s, people are much more reasonable, they know what they want.
Just make sure you don't like loneliness too much, then you just won't be able to get used to someone hanging around your house all the time.
Mikis

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 24, 2021 at 8:00 PM

My wife was a virgin until we got married. I was 38 and her 36. My second marriage, her 1st. For me, it's love. I love her more and more each day. I do the best as a husband and father to our boys. My advice, don't settle for just anyone. My wife would probably agree. Good luck.

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