Validation?

What is it with men and validation when it comes to the size of your crank? Every man I've ever dated wanted to be the biggest; even my husband! He still says crap like "you love my big cock" when we're in frisky mode.

Anyway, we have a neighbor, Dan, who has taken to walking around his house totally naked... And sometimes completely erect. At first, there was a bit of naughty fun to it. " oh look! Dan's naked. Wow." But, after a year or so, I was bored with seeing him parading around. So, a few weeks ago I confronted hi, and asked him to close his dr**es if he's going to naked... Or at least when he's jerking off and hard. Geesh.

At first he was a bit shocked, not at all embarrased, but claimed to understand me not wanting to see him in that way. But, then he quietly asked: "Do you like my size? I'm bigger than most guys, you know?" I smiled and said he was fine. Just "fine". I'm not sure he liked my answer! Lol

I didn't want to press the issue, he is actually bigger in that area than any of the men I've ever been with, but why does he need that validation? Why do a lot of guys seek that validation? Yes, you have a dick, we get it, geesh!