It's About Cumming And Feeling Good

I never cared too much for classifications. My first sex was cumming in another 15 year old boys butt when I was that age. We had sex many times for a couple of years. During that same time I also had sex with a few other young guys, but a few older ones too. For the most part with the younger I was topping, and did top a man but the others used my mouth and ass, I did let myself get gangbanged 11 times usually 5 to 8 guys, the largest group was 18 over 2 nights and a day. I liked cumming and I liked them cumming too. It was not about two guys, or being homosexual to me it was all about getting to shoot off.

At 17 I met a girl, she had lots of experience and let me fuck her too. Eventually she let me cum in her mouth and her ass as well. She liked playing with my asshole, and I didn't mind it. She'd tried it with several guys that freaked out when she wanted to stick a finger or three in their ass. To me it was all about feeling good, making the other person feel good and she really taught me what women liked. That was followed by several girls in college, only one guy. Then back in my home city I re-met the first girl I fucked and we dated, got married.

Now that I'm widowed, for many reasons, some emotional, some due to covid and not seeing too many women, I started having sex with guys again. I like fucking, and being fucked. I don't mind getting sucked to orgasm, I don't really like guys cumming in my mouth, but I let them to help them feel good.

To me it wasn't about labels, it's not even about attraction, my attraction would be to women, and probably petite teen guys, but it's about having sex and feeling good and making the other person (or in my younger days - other People) feel good.