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How Long Should I Wait?

I am a 22 year old woman who never had sexual intercourse with a man.
I started dated with a guy and today was our second date.
How long should I wait until I will sleep with this guy?
He is 35 years old so I guss he will not be very patient with me.
And he doesn't know I am a virgin, I am too scared to tell him the truth I am scared he will freak out.
I am attracted to him but I don't want to feel pressured that I have to sleep with him soon, I mean I want him but I want to let him to get to know me better.
Another question: when should I tell him that I am a virgin?

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# 50831 - by Ellie / April 14, 2021
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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 14, 2021 at 2:04 PM

You sound like my sister, she was a virgin several times, with several different guys.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 14, 2021 at 2:15 PM

Hi Ellie. As for the sex, you will know when the time is right. For the other thing, how about not saying a peep until after the fact? Or not at all? That way he can be himself and not have any anxiety over it. If you wish, you can always tell him that afterwards.

PS: Not all men freak out. I certainly didn't. Yes, I knew before hand. We both (now wife of 36yrs) had a super good time doing the deed for her first time. Good luck!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 14, 2021 at 3:57 PM

Your virginity or absence of the same is nobody's business and you shouldn't feel embarrassed about either.
Why should there be any pressure? Don't you feel the age gap is quite considerable?
Be sure what you want to do and don't jump into the bed,no matter whether your desires overwhelms you or his being in a hurry.
Life has to be lived in a responsible manner and not impulsively live quadrupeds, who always give in to lust.
Stand tall, earn well, be independent and take every step cautiously but confidently.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 14, 2021 at 5:59 PM

My wife and I, neither of which were virgins. She made me wait 6 weeks. Countless dates. We were both ready for a serios relationship. I liked her so I waited. If he likes you he will wait. If he doesn't want to wait, you know what he wants....

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 18, 2021 at 7:28 AM

The day you feel , you are all ready to sleep together, tell him about the virginity before a week as he will be so happy as well as feel like in heaven to be with you and may be more committed than he may have been thinking before .

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 2, 2023 at 9:02 AM

Forget him and move on.

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