Is This What It's Like...?

Yesterday I had a male friend hit me up AGGRESSIVELY on social media basically telling me how much he wished I had an OnlyFans account and how he'd pay me directly for a dick pic. And how long he's wanted to see it and how long he's been crushing on me.

This whole conversation came up in response to me offering to help take a look at his resume for jobs he might apply for in the near future. He knows I'm happily married (to a woman) and I mentioned my wife several times casually. He kept saying he wasn't trying to cross any boundaries but was just curious about me and what it would be like. I kind of felt like he wasn't listening, maybe I was too nice and didn't respond explosively enough to stop the behavior. He tried to contact me the next day and I made up an excuse to avoid talking to him.

Is this what women go through with us males? Something seemingly unsexual suddenly turning weird like this and you left feeling confused and wondering what happened and how the conversation went south?

I am so sorry, experiencing it firsthand like this was frustrating and eye-opening. My fellow males, read the room!