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I Can't Help Fantasizing About My Wife With Other Men.

My wife and I have been married for 30 years. She is 10 years younger than me so was very inexperienced when we first met.
I used to be a very jealous guy when we were first married. I guess because of our age difference I felt a little insecure about her being attracted to guys her own age.
But as far as I know she was never tempted, or if she was tempted, didn't cheat on me...as far as I am aware.
Now I am older and more secure about our relationship I can't stop fantasizing about her having sex with other guys...one on one or multiple guys at once. I don't know why I am now thinking like this but I just cant stop.
I have given her the opportunity to go with other guys if she so desired, but so far she's said no.
Now in her late 40's she is still a very sexy and shapely woman. A natural blonde with blue eyes and a great smile. Slim body and 36DD breasts.
I see how other guys look at her when she enters a room and so I know that there wouldn't be a shortage of takers if she offered herself to other guys.
Just the idea of her kissing another guy with passion, slipping her tongue in his mouth....gets me so hard and horny.
Is there something wrong with me?
How can I be successful in encouraging her to take up my offer?
HELP!
I do know she finds younger men....much younger men....a turn on. But I'm pretty sure that she's not the sort of woman to cheat even with my approval.
It's both a blessing and a huge frustration.
Comments or advice appreciated.

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# 51222 - by Mike / May 4, 2021
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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 4, 2021 at 4:46 PM

I’m right there with you! In 60 and been married for 30+ years. My wife got to fool around with other guys before we were married. Makes me hot thinking about it. During sex we talk about her fantasies of being with another guy with and or without me. But lately outside the bedroom I have told her that I’m dead serious and have told her she has a “hall pass” to fuck basically any guy she pleases and that I would be willing to facilitate a mmf threesome or a date with a guy(s). I explained my honest trusty that I’m not looking for the same freedom and not looking to have sex with other women. She’s pondering and being cautious. But the seed has been planted....

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 4, 2021 at 5:56 PM

Thank you for the response to my story. I hope that your wife takes you up on your offer....unlike mine.
I've wondered about putting her in a position of temptation. Maybe arranging for a younger good looking guy to chat her up when I'm not around. To see if she would do it if she thought i wouldn't find out.
Thanks again.
Mike

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 4, 2021 at 6:37 PM

i have similar thoughts as well and i think it does have something to do with age lol. my wife and I have discussed this but for various reasons it hasn't happened yet. My advice would be to tell her how serious you are and that you don't consider it cheating. Also tell her it's your fantasy and to just try it once and if she doesnt like it she won't have to hear about it again and you'd be satisfied at that point (even if you aren't).

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 5, 2021 at 3:33 PM

I would never encourage my wife to spend time away from the home. Too much invested financially and emotionally just give up her company any time an opportunity arises.
What will you be doing while she’s off helping other guys get off for free? Why should these guys get the benefit of the healthy and financially stable lifestyle that got her to this point in her life? If they had to pay for a good looking healthy disease free fuck like your wife it would be $2000 which would not be too far from the truth if you really added up a lifetime of expenses.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 10, 2021 at 8:18 AM

I enjoy a 100% fem-domme marriage with my much younger wife, who enjoys my financial good fortune, and makes me spoil her horribly, in exchange for her locking me up in a heavy canvas hooded strait-jacket, usually for 12 hours at a time, plus entire weekends, while she basically 'r**es' me to her heart's content. Then she started talking about the sexy guy who moved in next door, and told me she was going to entertain him, and let him face-fuck me, as long and as often as he wanted, as long as he took care of her first. Naturally I gave in to her demands, as I always do, and suddenly we were a very active trio, and I quickly learned how to suck cock, and submit to lengthy face-fucking through the zippered opening in the hood, to my wife's great amusement, and unrelenting encouragement. The more this happens, the more desirable it becomes, and I'm pretty sure this trio will be permanent.

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