My husband and I bought our house 5 years ago. Right next door there was a woman my age who had a son the same age as my son. We were actually so excited about this because we wrongly assumed that we would all get along. It started out fine, but then this woman became a massive leech. She called several times a week and would come over to chat every time I was outside. I still liked her but I felt it was too much since she was RIGHT next door. Then we completed a big renovation on our home and then BAM!!!!!!!! this woman turned from a leech into a TOTAL bitch. She wouldn't even wave anymore, purposely invited another neighbor and their kids over her house for playdates and always excluded our son. Then last year our sons started school together and she leeched onto another mother and her son. Pretty soon they had playdates several times a week and my son was never included once. Of course he was hysterical over this(he is only 6) and I tried to speak to her several times about this but always got blown off. Then the father of her sons new friend invited my son over his house(apparently unaware of anything going on) and this woman LOST it. My son did make several other friends at school and she started calling their mothers and asking for playdates. When my son saw his other friends over the neighbors house and once again he was never asked, he started to flip out AGAIN. She is a fat ugly nasty piece of crap and her husband is a nasty corrections officer who doesnt give her the time of day. I just wish I could tell her to go F*** herself but I don't want my son to get hurt. I tolerate this BS because I want my son to play this kid occasionally, even if it is only 5 times a year(pretty sad when you live right next door). I have no idea what caused her to start acting like this and treating my son like this too, why because I didnt want to be her best friend? So this psycho bitch takes this out on a little kid??? I really really can't stand you you FUCKING WENCH.

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by Anonymous on Mar 4, 2005 at 2:45 AM

Take your kid to the park two or three times a week to play.

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by Anonymous on Mar 4, 2005 at 8:53 PM

Pretty soon your son and all his friends will be old enough that they won't need their mothers to set up play dates for them. Little boys generally don't exclude others the way little girls do...I wouldn't worry, although I imagine it's quite upsetting for your son at the moment. You could enrol him in a sport or activity that your neighbor knows nothing about so your son can make friends from out of school. Good luck!

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by Anonymous on Mar 17, 2005 at 7:21 PM

I too have a psycho neighbor. She started off as sweet as could be but then turned into cybil! She has single handedly made my children unwilling to play in the neighborhood. as soon as they go outside she invites the others into her house for a treat. IF one of my boys in playing with another child she forces herchildren to come out and then waves then in and tells them they can bring in one friend. It is never my child (My oldest is 8yo and very well behaved so it is not an issue). her youngest son walked down to our home to tell my boys that the new child on the block was his friend and that they were not to try to play with him. The one time my middle son did try to play, her child came out as he walked down the block and stopped him. he came home crying saying that the new boys was not allowed to play with him.
I cannot talk to my neighbors because everytime I try to she will come out and try to exlude me from the conversations both orally and physically ( she will turn her back to me and try to form a circle away from me). When someone protested a short time ago she came to me crying and asking why I was turning the neighbors against her and her children. I have taken refuge in my house as nave my children and we make it a point to be home as little as possible now. the house will go up for sale int he spring. It is nice to know I am not crazy and I am not alone. It is all I can do not to rip her face off!

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by Anonymous on Mar 23, 2005 at 4:34 PM

Sounds like this neighbor of yours is just jealous that you did a major improvement to your home. So she's being childish and hurting the children to get back at you. It really is sad that adults act like this.

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