The Struggle Is Real

I am a sex addict, but not just regular sex. I am addicted to BDSM.
I have a wonderful & accommodating wife, and I do love her,
but I have struggled with this since before we met.
I have struggled with sex addiction in general for something like 15 years.
It's not exactly something I feel comfortable telling a typical counselor.
I mostly want advice on how to overcome this.

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# 51480 - by Frustrated / May 19, 2021

by Heathen44 on May 19, 2021 at 7:50 AM

Coming here for help with sex addiction is like a fox asking the hens for help on quitting chicken. Nothing here but prudes and pervs. If you're serious, talk to a legitimate group on the subject.

If you're not, spill the details while some of us stroke. Are you a top or a bottom? In my experience, the extremes in either direction can lead to some uncomfortable--but drastically different--paths. A friend who was a bottom found herself tied up and used way beyond safe words and casual play. Other inclinations can lead to some pretty dark and lonely places. If you feel you're already in that place, get the heck out of here or any other sexually oriented chat. Run, don't walk.

Otherwise, keep your play within consensual guidelines with whomever you choose to use or be used by, and enjoy yourself. You're probably not on any threshold yet or you wouldn't be talking about it publicly (however "anonymously".)

That's my 2 cents.

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by Anonymous on May 19, 2021 at 11:09 AM

I don't know the cure but I'm a sex addict myself. I'm bi. I don't care who I fuck or who fucks me. It's impossible for me to be in a monogamy relationship. I try to fight it. Not the sex, cause I can't win that but the honesty. I'm poly and since I decided I'm sticking to it. I'm honest. If my partners can't accept this I can't be with them.

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by Anonymous on May 20, 2021 at 11:00 AM

I've always been a very sexual guy and now being retired and thanks to the pandemic having even more time with my lovely younger wife, I find I'm having usually at least two or three climaxes a day.
Often get some playtime with my wife during the afternoon and frequently have a solo wank off late at night when she's asleep. I don't think it's interfering with other aspects of life so don't see it being a full blown problem. Seems harmless enough since I'm not driven to have indiscriminate sex with anyone. Wife is somewhat slowing down with her own sexual appetite, but is always willing to give me a nice BJ or a fuck whenever I want it. Must say I'm a very lucky sod.

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