How To Explain

My wife has recently agreed to try pegging with me. Excitedly I've ordered a pair of harness panties for her, a small starter dildo, condoms, lube, and a soft eye mask. They should be here early next week.

Where I am struggling is explaining to her why I want this and how. She's asked twice if I want her to "be the man," and his that makes her uncomfortable.

I want her to be 100% feminine energy, just happens to use a dildo on me every now and then. I don't want pain, aggression, degrading talk. I want her to make love to me like she does normally.

The idea of her gently probing my ass, her hands caressing me, supporting me, loving me. That's what I want, her softness. Soft touches on my balls and base and shaft. Ear nibbles, neck kisses, her rubbing my chest. I want to lose myself in her love, and I just don't see that happening if we are focused on aggression and who is being "the man."

Does this make sense to anyone? Can you translate into something I can tell her?

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# 51606 - by Mark Barman / May 28, 2021

by Anonymous on May 28, 2021 at 1:06 PM

You seem to put it into words perfectly here so do the same with your wife.

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by Anonymous on May 28, 2021 at 2:18 PM

I went down the same path and my mrs said the exact freaking identical same thing. I even already had the strap on and rig. I think the solution is to explain to her that the male P spot ie prostate is the equivalent to the female G spot and a man can cum just from having that probed. I have had many hands free mind blowing orgasms just from using a dildo or vibe on myself. Just wanting to experience that doesn't mean you want it from a guy or you are bi or gay, it just means you want to experience that pleasure WITH HER.

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by Anon69 on May 28, 2021 at 11:06 AM

I completely get it! That’s so wonderful and I hope you can convince her to love you how you need it ❤️

by Anonymous on May 28, 2021 at 11:38 AM

This makes me wet, no joke. I think you just read her what you wrote here and she'll take care of you. Ohh, use those words, too, "I want you to take care of me." Tell us how it goes.

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by Anonymous on Jun 1, 2021 at 8:14 AM

When my bride found out that I had quite a few flings with other boys and a few men in my formative teens she's become obsessed with thumb

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