Nipple Sensitivity

My issue is with my nipples. During puberty and ever since my nipples are sensitive. Touching them is involuntary. They come on and won't go down. I rub then constantly. If a man touches them it is very painful, kissing them forget it. A man pinching them hard is very painful and it triggers orgasms. I can't trigger an orgasm, and women pinching my nipples makes me want to pee but I can't, but no orgasm.

That's it.