I'm Open To A 3 Way As Long As She Is Open To Being My Lover Too

For the most part I've been in relationships with other women. But after three hard burnouts I seriously questioned why I was investing in female relationships when so many of my growing up and college friends were going on their second baby and I was going to bed with Netflix.

A man at work was a good friend, divorced from a witch, looking for love in all the wrong places. I had rebuffed his advances, on the basis of my then female relationship. He had told me that when I got tired of it and needed to get laid to give him a call. Inexperienced with any form of male relationship I thought this was a simple way of getting my virginity inconvenience out of the way.

He was cool to the idea, basically letting me know he wasn't interested in stud services only. Bouncing back from his refusal I let a stranger pick me up and get the dirty deed behind me. It was every bit as unwelcome as I imagined. I might as well masturbate with a bamboo stick. Three days later I met a girl at an art showing, we went straight to bed, had great sex and I was all aflutter with her. But nothing came of it.

So I went back to my work friend, basically let him dictate the terms, I agreed to his demands, which included baby making which was his number one condition. Four years later I live in a house with a man, have two kids in diapers, am the sole housekeeper and day dream and night dream about every pretty waitress I meet.

Sex is blah, I can't get aroused, procreation sex is all it is. My husband plays around with a girl named Sam who works with him and I get wet over a college girl who is helping at mother's day out at my church. I won't go back to burnout relationships. I have kids and a home, my husband understands and I don't complain about Sam. If Sam wanted some girl on girl fun I am open to her getting in bed. I'm not opposed to a three way as long as she comes to bed open to being a lover with me too.