The Passion Is Dead

I take good care of my wife, I've given her a good home, don't require or even ask her to work, she has it pretty easy. We are friends, but it seems that's usually the extent of things, there's no fire like there used to be between us.

What I mean is getting my wife to fuck these days is like trying to get blood from a turnip, futile as hell (unless she's been drinking, then she's all over me, licking my balls and everything.)
It would be nice if she could and would fuck without the liquid assistance, but it seems that sober, the passion is dead. At this point, if things don't change, I may be seeking a divorce, hate feeling like her fucking room mate.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 13, 2021 at 3:49 PM

Fuck! I’m gonna buy some booze and stop by your house while you are at work! Then when you guys get divorced and she keeps the house with alimony added, I’ll stop by every week with some liquor and fuck the shit out of her all weekend.
Thanks Bro!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 13, 2021 at 3:55 PM

Dumb-ass comment above.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 13, 2021 at 4:22 PM

If no kids divorce now. If kids try to find out more. If no more and less than 10 years, divorce. If more than 10 years take Ativan and wait.
PS women don’t tell men that they’ve left the marriage in their mind. They wait for the man to get pissed and provoke a confrontation. Don’t ever get mad. You’ll go to jail. Just plan and scheme like they do. Hence the Ativan.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 13, 2021 at 4:47 PM

Exact same circumstances for me, except I tolerated it for many years because of my kids. I got tired of arguing about it and trying to badger her into any fun just sucks the excitement right out of it. To hear her tell it, shes ready to go anytime in her mind, but reality is she's rarely interested only when I get really pissed off about it, which shouldn't be the reason for sex with your spouse. I thought part of getting married was taking care of each others needs. Well I take care of hers on a golden platter, paid off huge house, new car, huge bank account, where's mine? The two sucky things are, shes a hot attractive MILF with huge natural tits, so its like have a rolls royce parked in the garage that you cant drive. And I've got female friends who make it clear they want to fuck me and have told me "shes so lucky, whats her deal???". I feel your pain dude...

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 13, 2021 at 6:54 PM

Don't delay get rid of her TODAY it's never going to change so why stay with dead duck.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 13, 2021 at 7:01 PM

You know it’s funny, wife or spouse won’t cook, you can eat out, the won’t clean, hire a house keeper. They won’t go shopping? You can have it delivered.
No sex?
Do without.
Funny how you can legally & morally outsource these activities, but sex……. No way that adultry.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 13, 2021 at 9:14 PM

I will endorse the Post no.3.

Though difficult, be calm and plan things well.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 14, 2021 at 2:04 AM

Poster 4--feel sad about this.
Despite being very supportive, this betrayal.
Have you confirmed that she is no longer interested in you or in sex itself?
One needs to be careful.

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InSayShabell

by InSayShabell on Jul 14, 2021 at 4:43 AM

Have you talked to her about it? How do you approach her for sex? Do you try kissing her, fondling her, or going down on her? The way I see it she has to get drunk to have sex with you because you're probably overweight, and a selfish lover. Try attending to her emotional and physical needs unselfishly, and see how things go from there. If you are overweight now, get in shape. Get back to being sexy again.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 14, 2021 at 11:18 PM

Been with my wife for 41 years we have not had sex in over 12 years. Before menopause sex was hot and didn't have to ask for it we just did it and she most times started it. Then it was like fucking a dead horse. My best buddy in same boat so we started having sex with each other no one knows our wifes are happy we aren't asking for it and our kids don't know and we enjoy each other life is good

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