Got In Trouble At The Bar And Husband Does Not Know

I had sex with I think four men (definitely more than one) in one night and I'm afraid to tell my husband.

A coworker and I traveled for work. We went to a bar and got hit on by four guys in their 20's. We talked for while and drinks kept coming. I drank so much that I remember being handed a drink then after that I don't know.

I woke up in my coworker's hotel room. She was on the sofa in the room partially undressed, but I was laying in the middle of the bed nude. My clothing was piled on the dresser in front of the TV. I felt sore and knew right away someone had sex with me. My coworker had her period, so we think they didn't mess with her and just did it to me.

If I had just drank too much and someone took advantage of me I'd tell my husband. But, I did a lot of flirting at the bar and no one would believe we didn't all leave together from what I remember.

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Another_55er

by Another_55er on Jul 28, 2021 at 9:06 AM

Sorry that happened to you. I'd say you were unable to consent to sex in your condition. Do you or your coworker have any contact info on the guys? Could your drinks have been spiked? Does the hotel have any surveillance video?

I'm not sure what to do either. Hopefully another commenter will be able to assist. However only you know your husband, his expectations and probable response or reaction.

However, do get tested. In the future, please limit your consumption. Especially around strangers.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 28, 2021 at 9:59 AM

Yes you certainly should tell your husband. You had too much to drink and then had too much dick. You can't be sure how many guys fucked you but you definitely got fucked. It's not your fault though because you had no choice but to drink everything put in front of you.

I am absolutely sure he will be understanding and will gladly forget the whole thing. Because he knows how faithful you are and had you not been forced to drink all that alcohol you would have only fucked one or two of them.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 28, 2021 at 10:46 AM

Seek counseling if you must, but don't try to salve your conscience by wrecking his faith in you and your good sense.

It sounds very much like you were dosed by some new acquaintance that night in the bar. I have no clue how many men were in on it, but I'm betting two or more since it sounds like your work friend was also incapacitated, but delivered to your room. The high end is known only to the men who r**ed you and possibly the bartender. He may have seen you, your friend, and the men who "escorted" you back to your room leaving as a group. I'll caution that his observation may be of limited value because he could have been distracted or because the men who assaulted you broke into groups so they all wouldn't be seen leaving with you.

Do you have any memory of the earlier part of the evening? Was it a pair of men that started buying drinks for you and your friend? Was it a group of four since that seems to be your initial guess on how many cocks you serviced with your married pussy? Was it possibly more with men moving in and out of the group you were chatting with?

When you were taking stock the next morning and were convinced your pussy had been used by men you couldn't remember, did you notice whether or not there was sperm in and on your c**t? If there was, was it more than you would imagine would be present if you had been seeded by more than one or two men?

Did either of you taste the residue of stale cum in your mouths? Are the two of you convinced your pussy was the only hole used as a cum receptacle?

Despite whatever details you can fill in, the path forward seems clear. Since you apparently decided not to involve the police, the first thing you have to do is get a pledge from your friend to never mention the episode ever, to anyone, even as an anonymous example of "what can happen on the road."

Second, get tested for STDs, and pregnancy if necessary. Go online or dig up a phone book and look for a place with cheap anonymous testing. Yes, you'll be in line with whores and teen girls who are hoping their dads didn't accidentally knock them up when they traded pussy for the car keys last weekend, but it's still better than dragging your family doctor into the loop.

Third, as soon as the results come back negative or you finish the antibiotics for your "yeast infection," get back on the horse. Give it up for your husband and don't hold back.

Fourth, optional, find that therapist to dump all of this on and work through your guilt for putting yourself in a situation where you could get dosed and fucked. If it helps any, you shouldn't feel any guilt about the situation. You were unconscious and gave no consent to being fucked like a $2 whore. If your story is true, you garnered no pleasure from the acts committed on you.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 28, 2021 at 2:46 PM

I know its not your fault. However "you can only put yourself into a certain position so many times before a posible outcome happens".
Learn from it, move on. Dont put yourself into that situation again.
File a police report if you want. But no need to put this on your hubby.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 29, 2021 at 2:45 PM

Telling your husband will only hurt your husband. That said, you basically wanted to tease the younger men (a "cock tease"?) then were offended when things led to where you hinted they could go by flirting with them?

Was the amnesia just a convenient excuse for what you may have allowed to occur anyhow had you been in control?

Slut.

If you don't like being married and faithful to your husband, then by all means take the high road and confess that and divorce him. You don't deserve him.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 30, 2021 at 9:18 PM

It happens. It's happened to me and a few of my friends. TBH, I didn't mind it. It let me feel the thrill of knowing I had an adventure while saving me from the guilt by remembering what all I did wrong

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