go and fuck him coz if you dont one day ur regret it
If you're really happy in your current relationship then you'll control your thoughts and emotions. There's nothing wrong with fantasies, but it can cause issues if you keep entertaining it every day. Take it from someone who's been there, fantasies like that are fun if they just stay fantasies. It's when you give in that troubles start no matter how much you think you've gotten away with it.
Must agree with the last commenter. I'm a randy old fellow in my 60s and have had sexual fantasies since I was a lad of maybe 13. Have been able to see many of them through too. But on the whole it seems like one's fantasies are very hard to actually bring off properly in real life. And when you do manage through intense planning and such and have it happen, my experience is usually a bit of a disappointment. Sad to say but the truth is, most fantasies are way hotter as what they are, fantasies.
If you have a good time wanking whilst imagining something or someone, then enjoy it and leave it at that.
You don't really need any experts' opinion here.
You are fully aware of the opposite pull of two very strong impulses- loyalty to your partner and lust for variety.
Perfectly common. If you want to gove on to this fantasy , consider the consequences.Should your partner not object , it will be easy.
Why not talk to your partner? I am sure her fantasizes about some other woman while having sex with you.
Variety always brings back the ardour that goes for a toss after 6 months of any relationship.
As said earlier , one has to only weigh pleasure against consequences.
You may be able to get that man utop you as well as many others if everything falls in place.
Let's hope this man isn't fantasizing about your partner instead of you.
Last poster with corrections:
Give in and NOTgove in.
He NOT her fantasizes.
You say you're in a long term relationship, you're happy and love your partner... A Fantasy is best handled in the shower alone.
Keep things just as they are...stay faithful but fantasise about the other guy. When you're in bed with your partner close your eyes and imagine how the other guy would be different...
