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Girlfriend Told Me About Upcoming Bachelorette Party.

I am not exactly sure how to take some information my girlfriend told me about an upcoming Bachelorette party she will be a part of. The bride to be is wanting to get laid alot on their weekend party, so they will be trying to bring guys back to their hotel room to fool around with.

My girlfriend said they will make sure to be "safe." And that she will try to stay as uninvolved as she can, but that she will probably be pressured into getting involved.

She said she assumed that the 2 bachelor parties I've gone on we went to strip clubs and hooked up with chicks. Definately not the case. One we went to a few bars and the other was golf, a brewery and then we were going to go to bars but got too high.

Now I'm just picturing some lucky group of dudes banging a while Bachelorette party and the girl I've dated for years just being some story another guy tells of the night he fucked a bunch of chicks.

Am I weird to want to break up for this or should I appreciate her honesty Bout the party...?

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# 52859 - by Conflicted / August 9, 2021
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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 9, 2021 at 7:48 AM

Personally honesty or not sounds like she wants other dick. Voicing your feelings even though righteous. Will just make her do it in secret. If you can't handle her being with others well hate to say it but might want to move on.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 9, 2021 at 8:01 AM

Of you don't mind sharing then it's no big deal. But get used to it because apparently her and her friends could give a shit about being faithful. She assumed you were just like her and her friends where fucking other people while in a relationship is normal. Isf that's not normal to you, then you should break it off with her. But you should find your next gf before you let her loose. Also get tested, I'm sure she's already had other guys since she's been with you.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 9, 2021 at 8:13 AM

Dump her.She’s cheating on you, and unless you’re into that, don’t stand for it. Btw, the bride is a whore.

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Hunchback

by Hunchback on Aug 9, 2021 at 11:54 AM

I’m 60 and usually tell people here not to freak out about almost anything. But I’m curious if she fucks who her friends say to fuck or she just uses it as an excuse to fuck? Hmmm. I don’t know if I like her quasi honesty. Are you supposed to be on pins and needles the whole time wondering if she fucks or not? That’s not cool. She should have kept that to herself and not put you in the position of worrying. I think she should have said it this way “can I fuck at the party?” You say yes-no and there’s no question. If you say no she tells her loose friends her bf said no side dick.
I’m leaning towards what the other commenters said. This girl is fishy and not respectful to you. Maybe time to move on.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 9, 2021 at 10:01 PM

So... There is a huge difference between a Bachelorette party and a wedding shower. When I got married I had zero interest in what goes on at Bachelorette parties so I just had a wedding shower. When my maid of honor was getting married she DID want a Bachelorette party. She also wanted it to get as nasty as her fiancé was sure to have. Luckily, us friends of hers, were not as daring as she was. Yes, I ended up having sex with one of the guys but most of our time was lesbian type stuff we did as 'friends' anyway. By the time I got home all I could think about was how was I ever going to face my friends again after all that lezzing out we did. You may not think of it the way I do, but I felt like that weekend really made me appreciate my marriage and my husband even more. I did NOT miss being single and side dick stuff. I was thankful of my life and the man I still go home to. Please don't jump to judgment on her just because see might not see life exactly the same way you do

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 10, 2021 at 1:34 AM

You don't have to bend your values to go along with what's normal for your girlfriend. Some people might enjoy knowing their girlfriends have side dishes and it's fine if that's what turns them on. But if that's not the case for you, then you don't need to force yourself to accept it. It's not one of those things you should compromise in a relationship and honestly, how she told it to you says a lot. Agree with other commenters that just because she's being pressured by friends she'll do it? No way. She can even opt in to call sick if she really wanted to. It's a valid feeling.

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