I'm Just Not In Love,

Looking at it from a practical point of view the arrangement isn't bad. A house, car, income, good schools. Being a young idealistic college grad it seemed like true love. I know that hormones run it all, but they cloud your mind. He is a good man, I just don't love him. Not in that way. Like living with your older brother.

I'm not in love with another man, I've never gone there. But after ten years I know my husband is more of my father or my big brother. Sex. It's fine enough but never a calling.

Comments

Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 3, 2021 at 9:41 AM

That's how my marriage is too, more sister than lover. I've had some sexual soulmates, sex with them was effortless and earth-shaking. With the spouse it's forced, clumsy, awkward, and unfulfilling. It's unfortunate marriage for most of us locks you down and you either have to cheat or just live without good hot sex.

(3)  (0)

Comment this

Can't read the image? Click here to refresh