Is It Transphobic?

basically im a gay dude who has no issues on dating or fucking trans guys. in fact, i even consider some trans guys to be really fucking hot an attractive.
however, I've noticed that the only type of trans men that I can be attracted to are those who look somewhat masculine (not necessarily herculean-like, but at least those who could pass as cis guys) and who have transitioned. I'm not really attracted in those who are either not transitioning or are just getting started.
I'd like to know whether you guys think it's transphobic or not since I've talked about it with plenty other people as well and I've gotten pretty varied responses. obviously that doesn't mean I'm gonna change who I'm attracted to since I can't :p I'd just like to know whether you'd think that's transphobic or not

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 17, 2021 at 4:48 AM

I don't think it is. You can't force yourself to be attracted to someone who does not attract you... Do you hate trans people? No. You just don't want to fuck some of them. It's ok.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 17, 2021 at 9:35 AM

I don't think it's transphobic and I'm trans masc. It sounds like you just have a preference for masculine looking guys is all. I would say it's similar to a preference for bears or daddies over twinks. I'd just word it that way instead of cis-passing or finished transitioning, those are kind of loaded terms for some people.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 17, 2021 at 6:41 PM

^thank you, I actually didn't know how to word those phrases since I was half asleep while I wrote it lol

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