Adopted Father

I have sex with adopted father for the last three months. He dedicated his last 13 years to my upbringing and is single and lonely ever since my adopted mother left us 10 years ago. I struggle with childhood trauma, I am socially akward and struggle to make friends. I feel he is only person who ever truly loved and supported me. People myght feel I am a victim and he exploited me, but to me feels comforting and natural, to have sex with him. We're helping each other out. He is only person I ever have sex with, only person I care for, and only person I feel safe with. I still only love him as a father, and hope both he and I will find partners in future, but for now, I feel better than at any time in my life.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 19, 2021 at 7:54 PM

Keep it up, if it makes you happy, there’s no reason not to do it.

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Another_55er

by Another_55er on Sep 20, 2021 at 5:11 AM

Sarah, work on establishing usual or normal sexual partners and adult relationships. Counseling, even self counseling is suggested for understanding. Meanwhile, experiment and enjoy.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 20, 2021 at 5:24 AM

That's a really interesting story and we'd love to hear how this all came about. Since this is about two consenting adults, I see no harm in what you're doing, just love !

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 20, 2021 at 10:02 AM

#2 sigh...
People like you, not her or her father, are the problem.

You think you're smart just because she doesn't live her life as you do, but you have no idea how smart she is and you don't have any understanding of the situation. If that's something she likes to do AS A MATURE WOMAN! then that's what she likes to do.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 21, 2021 at 5:58 AM

#2 I go to counceling since I was 5. Like I say, I have trauma and adopted father has dedicated his life to help me.

#3 When I was 5 i suffer tragedy and lose family. A friend of my parents, a man who work with children and is very caring, adopt me and decide to try give me normal childhood and life. I suffer nightmares and often sleep in same room with him, even as teenager. I first tried to have sex two years before, but he not want to. Said it now right for us to do it, since he raise me. But I tell him it felt right to me, that I am lonely I want to have human contact with someone. He avoid subject and just act as a dad to me. And so 3 months before today, when I wake from nightmare, I go to him and hold rond him while he sleep. Next morning he wake up, and I kiss him. We kiss and cuddle but suddenly he back away and say it's wrong, but I tell it's OK that I want and need it. We have sex first time that morning and after stay in bed and cuddle. He try apologies to me, but I say I feel better then in long time. Since then we have sex. I feel better, fewer nightmares, do better in school. My therapist say I am doing better these days (I not tell her about sex, of course) My father sometime feel guilty, but he also happyer and less lonely.

#1 and #4: Thanks!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 3, 2021 at 6:19 AM

Beautiful story...Since you're both adults and are not related by blood, there is no reason not to follow
your heart . You don't need therapy, things will work out over time.

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