I have these two neighbors families. All of our kids play in the cold-a-sack. One family has one four year old (the same age as my oldest) and a eight year old girl. The other has a 6 year old boy and two tiny ones.
I am constantly on my two boys for not being nice and for the way they treat the other kids.
The other two mothers dont and there kids treat mine like crap. They run away when mine try to say high and arranged play dates are cancelled.
When I try to talk to the mothers ab out these issues they act like I am cussing them out and I am a monster deamon. I now know where these kids get it.
The mothers dont answer the door when the interrior door is open.
We finally figured out why they are churchy people and consider us unchurched. But they are the biggest liars I ever met
I want to move my son isconstantly heart broken because ofthere heathens..

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by Anonymous on Nov 5, 2007 at 4:09 PM

Well it sounds like its your kids that are causing the problems, other wise why are you constantley on them about it.

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by Anonymous on Nov 5, 2007 at 4:31 PM

I properly disapline my children instead of letting them do whst ever they wsnt, Like they allow their children to do

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by Anonymous on Nov 6, 2007 at 7:13 PM

First, it's cul-de-sac.
Second, if it's two neighbors you're not getting along with then maybe the problem lies with you.
If you want a situation where your children have more choices in neighboring children to play with, then move to a city or town.

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by Anonymous on Nov 7, 2007 at 6:39 AM

These two women are best friends and have been for several years. And I guess I should have explained clearly, the cold-a-sack is an inside joke. I am not a complete idiot.

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by Anonymous on Nov 8, 2007 at 3:50 PM

It's cul-de-sac. That's French for "bottom of the sack." Picture a cloth sack with a rounded closed end. That's what your street resembles.
I suggest you and your child find an activity or club where he can meet children of like interests. Cub Scouts, horseback riding, gymnastics, theater club, 4-H. There are tons of things for kids to do and there are many nice kids out there.
The little brats who are mean to your son aren't worth crying over. Their church-going mothers need a swift kick in the ass. They aren't real Christians.

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by Anonymous on Nov 8, 2007 at 11:07 PM

I was going to advise something along these lines as well. Don't waste any more energy on these people. Find other kids from somewhere else in your neighborhood, or your town. Invite them over for playdates, whatever. Show those "christian" wannabes that they are nothing to you and what they do doesn't bother you in the least. Completely ignore them other than a perfunctory "hi" or whatever is necessary and go about your life.
I did the same thing you have been doing--I was constantly on my son to get along with these 2 younger boys from different neighbor families and one was a whiney mama's boy and the other was a mean, mean kid that always antagonized until fists started flying. Even when my son wasn't around he was blamed for stuff. So I invited boys from school or that we met through the local MOMS Club for playdates and have a good life now. Good luck to you!!!

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by Anonymous on Nov 10, 2007 at 12:36 PM

Thank You so much for the great advise. I am sure I am not the only one that has gone through this...

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by Anonymous on Nov 10, 2007 at 4:08 PM

No? Just how much of an idiot are you?

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by Anonymous on Nov 11, 2007 at 2:21 PM

Do you have to be an ass?

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by Anonymous on Nov 11, 2007 at 2:22 PM

Are you just trolling? Do you have a need to be mean to someone? If so try another thread!!!

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