My Husband Is On The Downlow

So I went thru my husband phone(yes I know it wrong) but a woman’s intuition is never wrong. I went thru everything. He even have a gay app on the phone. Using fake name and picture. Looking to get he’s disk sucked and he is the top( got that from the profile introduction). Find out he been texting this female for months at the time. But when I looked back he had been texting her longer then a few months. The female been in my face smiling smoking with us. And he never said anything. Shit like this will make a bitch crazy. She stated getting feeling but he came they only had conversations. I went to him told him about it. He wanted more from me like more affection and he’s dick sucked more. He told me that before I find out what he had in hes phone. So I thought I was doing to more but I guess not. Because now he’s doing the same fucking shit. He went out he’s way to get a screen protector privacy for he’s phone. So I went thru the phone again. He’s have to app back on the phone and using another app to text female. At this point I love my husband but I just don’t kno what to do. I’m hurt mad sad angry embarrassed. He don’t care about my feelings. I need advice. We been together for over 10 years. He kno I’m bisexual and yes we had threesomes and we would go to swingers club. But kno I’m seeing I’m not enough for him if he’s seeking for a bottom on a gay app. PLZ HELP ME.