Not Just Any 'other Woman' Relationship

Being young and impressionable I fell for a married coworker. His wife was out of town and I went out with him for Mexican food. Stuck in a dark booth he groped me, kissed me, and I was ready for more. He took me home, his home, and he did what men do. I spent the night with him in he and his wife's bed. When I woke up and the sun was up and I was naked in his bed I got the chills of fright and embarrassment.

He wanted to shower together, I wasn't sure I wanted to be naked like that, he insisted on washing my chest and getting his hand in between my legs and butt cheeks, insisting I wash his penis. All stuff a young woman dreads with her first affair, and frankly her first time.

But the worst was yet to come. While we were drinking coffee his wife called to touch base and sitting across from me he blurts out that 'Cassey spent the night with him'. They talked a few more minutes about personal stuff. When his wife returned home she made a point of talking to me.

First, be polite and tell the wife first if you are going to sleep with her husband. Second, be polite and change the bed after sleeping with him, and launder and fold the sheets. Third, don't sulk when she is confronting you. She never told me to stop, not to sleep with her husband. Her job then took her out of town a lot and she talked to me before leaving, chores that needed to be done before she came home. When you share a husband, you share the housework too. That was our 'arrangement'.