Is This The Real Life? Is This Just Fantasy?

My now ex wife used a legit stalker situation to rid herself of me, wish I was joking. The last few months have been bizarre.

This 25 year old girl named Renee at my work got a little too close to our relationship, got attached to me, and started showing up where me and my wife went more than a few times, messaging me all the time, and I caught her driving by our house on a few occasions. My wife not only let it happen, she encouraged it. "Oh let her have a little crush, it's kind of hot that she's all worked up for you."

Since wifey didn't seem to care, I didn't think much more about it. I tried my best not to lead her on, but she was a team lead for another department so we saw each other a lot and had to work on projects together. So I really couldn't get away, and at work she did make me a bit uncomfortable.

Things did start to shift between wifey and I - our bedroom life pretty much died and she said she was dealing with depression. The solution? A lot of time with her sister, and later on I found out that meant going out. A lot. Something was going down for sure, but I had no idea what.

Things finally culminated in a work trip that ended in my hotel room and Renee staying with me, pretty much naked, for three whole days. Basically we'd work during the day, and during down time or at night she was all over me. I've never had a woman say she loved me as many times as I heard it here. During that stay, I noticed my name was actually tattooed on her ankle. And I got ahold of her phone when she was passed out and there were quite a few pics of me that I didn't know she took. Also quite a few vids of her masturbating furiously while saying my name over and over. Jesus. Christ.

And finally, a current text exchange between her and my wife? It was a play-by-play of the trip, and all the sexual things that happened between us. I was in shock, especially as wife was giving her pointers, telling her what I liked, and praising her reports of what she did to me. Going further back, wife was telling her when I had off days, where we were going for dates, and even sending her pics of my cock that I thought were private. Well, no more guilt at least, I thought. The last day I kind of said screw it and took Renee all over Chicago where we were staying and just pretended she was the actual wife - I held her hand, called her honey, went all over in public like tourists, bought her j*welry. She loved it, and I got a blowjob on a river tour boat as a reward.

When I got back, wifey initiated the talk. She knew I'd "cheated" and had been for a long time (which of course wasn't entirely accurate at all). I told her I saw Renee's phone and asked he what she was up to. She wanted out, and moved out permanently to live with her sister - we'd grown apart and she just couldn't do it anymore. Renee was there same day, and "came clean" about everything, with a lot of tears and begging me not to be mad at her. I told her I knew, and went and got us both a beer out of the fridge.

Ex-wifey of course had another guy already lined up, too - a black guy, too. That surprised me, but I wasn't mad or even hurt. This whole thing was so weird, and she set me up with someone that worships me.

I guess what I have to figure out is how fair it is to judge Renee's actions in wooing me when my wife was encouraging her. Couple's counseling? Keep your eye on the news from Midwest America - if there's a love triangle m****r, might be me.