I Found Out

We have been married 22 years. 3 children in the teen years. Approx 5 years ago my wife really started taking care of herself and has been a great sex partner. We are close friends with a family that has two children that are best friends with our children. He is older than me in great shape. His wife is a fatty and obviously doesn’t care how she dresses or appears to others. One Saturday our friend brought his kids over to do some activity with our kids. I was working in the back yard when I noticed they had arrived. When I was almost about to enter the back door I look through wash room window I saw my friend and wife hugging with his hand rubbing between her legs. I quit to spy and after they quit hugging they kissed and had some words with him squeezing her breast. I knew at this time they were having sex together. I didn’t tell her for a few days what I saw. I talked to a lawyer and our pastor. My pastor suggested forgive because it is obvious my wife loves me and the children.
With the children gone one afternoon I confronted my wife. We cried and discussed the situation. She nor our friend desires to break up our families. My wife loves me and has no intention of us splitting up. She basically expressed she has sex with him to give him the opportunity for sex. I went outside to get air and do yard work. Approx an hour later our friend pulled in the back yard where I was and we discussed situation. We all were cool headed.
This all settled out well. After about a week one night after hard sex my wife asked could she still help our friend with sex. She expressed she has always given me all the sex I want. She admitted enjoying sex with our friend. We discussed this scenario a few days. We even invited our friend to discuss guidelines for the flings. They would be discreet. I wanted to watch them have sex but they both refuse. So we plan their moments and I even help keep the children away and help give convenient opportunities to get together.about once a week they get two hours together.
My wife tells me some of their adventures to arouse us for sex. Our friend is big tooled and knows how to use it. They have had sex on many spontaneous occasions. She can have standing sex easily because of his size. They have had sex in closets at school events, church education rooms, curb store bathrooms, outdoor parking sites, back seat like teens and many other situations. One day my whole family was walking in the mall and he happened to be there. My wife while giving me a hug told me to take kids to eat and she would find us later, she and friend walked off. When she returned I could tell she had had sex. We couldn’t wait to get home for us to have sex.
She has started letting him put a hickie on her breast to show me when they have a sneak unplanned sex. One thing I don’t like is when we arrange for them to have the house to themselves he really uses her and she doesn’t want sex for a day or two. I really do want to watch them but haven’t had the opportunity. This afternoon while I was helping in the kitchen my wife showed me a quick peak of her breast with a small hickie. She whispered that she wants us in bed early tonight.
I know our situation has a lot of drama but we are living the moment. When we are with his family and I see his fatty wife I don’t blame him for looking somewhere else for sex. My friend often thanks me.