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Disappointing Sex Life

Not that happily married to say the least. My sex appetite has grown since having 2 kids but my wife not so much. I'm lucky to get laid once a month at best. I frustrating as he because it all depends on her and how she's feeling..sexy or not. She barely even sucks my cock anymore and I don't want to cheat but what the hell do I do. I wanna get sucked and fuck and not just me receiving i give to but she still won't let loose. I just don't know where to go from here.

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# 54681 - by Mike / November 5, 2021
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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 6, 2021 at 6:01 AM

lots of guys in your boat.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 6, 2021 at 6:47 PM

Very difficult and frustrating to be sure. You might want to consider seeing a prostitute who can handle whatever you want to do.
If you don't want to cheat that way, or have sex with a sketchy partner, perhaps a interactive video thing like chaturbate might work for you.
Just putting some options out there.
On the subject of options, another guy in the same boat might be a good fit too. You might find that doing oral on each other is a hot kick and m2m sex is more likely to be NSA and just for fun without the drama that a mf affair often turns into.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 6, 2021 at 10:16 PM

Mother and partner here so hopefully I can give insight as to how your wife is feeling. As the main caregiver, I can tell you her sex drive is low because she is mentally, physically and emotionally exhausted. Do you make an effort to take the load off of her shoulders? Sometimes offering to do the dishes, playing with the kids so she can take a bath or a nap so she can reboot? It makes a world of difference to send her sweet messages, or when you get home from work to tell her you missed her today. When women (or speaking from my point of view) feel their partner is attracted to them physically and emotionally that's when we get turned on. When you grab our crotch while we're exhausted while washing the dishes we are so "touched out" that it makes us cringe. The fact that your first thought is to have an affair rather than find ways to make your wife feel loved, beautiful and respected enough speaks volumes that you've checked out. She probably just feels like she's become the house maid and baby sitter to you so no wonder sex is the last thing on her mind. We women love to feel like sluts with our partner but when we know you don't feel attracted to us and just want to get your dick wet, then it's not a turn on for us.


If you start an affair, you're most likely going to try "woo" this other woman, and make an effort to make her feel special enough to want to start something with you. Why can't you make that effort with your wife? What about a bit of role playing?
If you can't be bothered rekindling the passion in your marriage then yeah, go for a prostitute because at least she'd be getting paid to act for you.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 7, 2021 at 12:17 PM

I often often often will do most of the house work and take care of the kids. I do the dishes, vacuuming, moping floors, cook dinner,kids lunches, clean up after dinner, law and outside work, inside renovation work, let her take baths every night so she can relax , i bath the kids and put them to bed. I take the load off of her 99% of the time and this is why I don't understand and not sure what to do. I practically run the house beautifully with out her around so her not wanting to have sex is really making me think twice about this marriage. Frustrating and aggravating

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 8, 2021 at 4:11 AM

I found pleasure with other men after many years of not having sex any longer. I was very nervous at first, but I found so many other married men who still wanted sex. Once you'r over the taboos its very satisfying, for me I love taking a man in my mouth - I find it such a turn on. Good luck with whatever you do

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 5, 2021 at 2:37 AM

when was the last time you actually courted her as a man courting his lover? surprise her, win her trust without expectation of sex, show your self confidence and eye contact with her. doesnt stop when she puts on a ring or has babies.

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