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Dating Disasters
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Straight Male / 30
Caught My High School Crush
This is the definition of having your heart broken. A worst scenario type of thing. It's kinda my fault too.
There was this girl I had huge crush on in high school. I was totally obsessed with her. We lived within a block of each other. We actually by random got hired at the same job. It was like a dream come true. I started to talk to her. Got to know her. I got her number. Eventually I told her I really liked her. She kept telling me, that I was a better person than her and that she was this broken girl that had a shitty life. It just looks perfect on Instagram etc. I felt like she was making excuses. We did hang out a lot. She was one of those girls that likes older men. So when she was 18, she'd date like 25, almost 30 year olds. I was 17 at the time.
So this is when it happened. She had her own apartment. We used to hang out a lot there. We never had sex though. Only kissed a few times. I texted her that I wanted to come over. She didn't respond right away and I was already almost there. It was normal to just show up. So I figured she's probably busy.
I get there. I knock. It's like a 5 minute wait. She eventually comes to the door and she's wearing pajamas still and a big t shirt. I said hey and she said, you should have called me. I said I texted you. She was standing at the door like she didn't want me to come in. I can see her hallway in the background where her room is and right across from her room is the bathroom.
I shit you not, a naked dude, like straight up butt ass naked, walks out of her room, and he sees me and is like, oh shit and casually goes into the bathroom. Like butt naked, and he wasn't even trying to cover it up. He walked out, and I could see his dick was hard and he just strolls into the bathroom.
I was like um....and she just looked down in disappointment because we both saw him. So we kinda stood there. And then she was like, let me text you. So I left not sure what just happened. She texted me saying, that was just a guy staying there. But then she eventually told me, they were just fucking. Not dating.
If I was a detective, I should have saw this earlier because a few days earlier, we were sexting a bit and she sent me some photos. Well she wasn't holding the phone. I never thought to ask who took the pictures.
I went home and cried for hours. I just kept imagining what was going on in that room. I'm sure they continued even after I left. When I was knocking on the door, I was wondering what they were doing. This dude literally did everything I wanted to do with my dream girl. It just broke me. We never spoke again.
Anyways that's my sob story.
There was this girl I had huge crush on in high school. I was totally obsessed with her. We lived within a block of each other. We actually by random got hired at the same job. It was like a dream come true. I started to talk to her. Got to know her. I got her number. Eventually I told her I really liked her. She kept telling me, that I was a better person than her and that she was this broken girl that had a shitty life. It just looks perfect on Instagram etc. I felt like she was making excuses. We did hang out a lot. She was one of those girls that likes older men. So when she was 18, she'd date like 25, almost 30 year olds. I was 17 at the time.
So this is when it happened. She had her own apartment. We used to hang out a lot there. We never had sex though. Only kissed a few times. I texted her that I wanted to come over. She didn't respond right away and I was already almost there. It was normal to just show up. So I figured she's probably busy.
I get there. I knock. It's like a 5 minute wait. She eventually comes to the door and she's wearing pajamas still and a big t shirt. I said hey and she said, you should have called me. I said I texted you. She was standing at the door like she didn't want me to come in. I can see her hallway in the background where her room is and right across from her room is the bathroom.
I shit you not, a naked dude, like straight up butt ass naked, walks out of her room, and he sees me and is like, oh shit and casually goes into the bathroom. Like butt naked, and he wasn't even trying to cover it up. He walked out, and I could see his dick was hard and he just strolls into the bathroom.
I was like um....and she just looked down in disappointment because we both saw him. So we kinda stood there. And then she was like, let me text you. So I left not sure what just happened. She texted me saying, that was just a guy staying there. But then she eventually told me, they were just fucking. Not dating.
If I was a detective, I should have saw this earlier because a few days earlier, we were sexting a bit and she sent me some photos. Well she wasn't holding the phone. I never thought to ask who took the pictures.
I went home and cried for hours. I just kept imagining what was going on in that room. I'm sure they continued even after I left. When I was knocking on the door, I was wondering what they were doing. This dude literally did everything I wanted to do with my dream girl. It just broke me. We never spoke again.
Anyways that's my sob story.
