Just Reality

I have no problem with monogamy, but when someone marries a person, and demands monogamy from them, and then ALWAYS turns them down when it comes to anything intimate, I sympathize greatly.

People have needs, and wrong as it may be to cheat, it's just as wrong to constantly deny intimacy to someone you've committed to spend your life with.

IF you constantly deny a person the intimacy they need, eventually they WILL seek it elsewhere.

That's just the facts, Jack.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 28, 2021 at 4:14 PM

Yep it's those extenuating circumstances that lead to seeking intimacy elsewhere. I feel you my man oh, I feel you.

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Another_55er

by Another_55er on Nov 30, 2021 at 7:56 AM

If you aren't willing to provide your partner with both emotional and physical intimacy, (excluding medical reasons) why are you there.

Minimally provide a hall pass.

I had an AP whose hubby wasn't able to provide her what she needed sexually. We met through a CL ad she placed. Our physical affair lasted 3 or 4 years. Ending because hubby's health improved. However, we remain platonic friends and talk and touch base at least once per month. Hm. I think I just made my first though abbreviated confession.

Bottom line sex is important to healthy relationships.

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