I'm in the military too, in Corpus Christi TX, in housing each cul-de-sac has a "mayor" usually the senior resident, if we have problems we can talk to him about it, if he can't help well then that's what the chain of command is for. There are rules on every base concerning what can be in the yard, what time kids have to be inside, etc. if your neighbors are breaking the rules, call the base police. I'm in the Navy, I don't know shich service you're in but I'm sure you have a senior enlisted advisor you could talk to. Military housing has its problems but unlike the civilian world there are many ways to get problems "removed" and if you're senior to your neighbors and they mouth off to you well then there is one more charge against them
I would like to think of my home as a place where I can relax and not have to be the gestapo of the village. Military Police (Marines, for me) doesn't exist for me as our base housing is actually off base in a centralized location. San Diego has little areas sectioned off for this purpose but they are not gated communities as most other bases I have seen.
There are so many people who don't deserve to have kids. BAD parents!! Those boys need a good spanking! Then off to boot camp, or the "Maury" show.
If you're in the military, then you need to set an example. if you defend your country, than you should be able to raise your children properly.
I have come to realize that 90 precent of military wives are lazy, fat, drug addicts, whores, bad mothers, drunks or fuckn in the head. I know I'm a late 30's house wife to SSG. Living on post was the worst experience of my life!! It's truly sickening to see kids neglected!! Not to mention the filth of these people's homes or the pill popping that they think in normal or okay! I will never live on post again! I am better than most of my husbands units wives, including the drunken, bitch's who are the biggest whores: the officers wives !!!