The subject about says it all. When something goes wrong its my fault. He can't make a decision to save his life. I told him I'd like to stop working for a few months and he says no we can't afford it. We don't have any debt, NONE. And he makes about $65k a year. I'm not planning on being out long just need a break for a couple months. If it were reversed I'd let him and I make considerably less but we could do it on my salary. Instead of taking a break from working for a couple months I think I'll divorce his sorry ass and sue him for half the property he inherited. That would teach him, he'll owe me about $100,000. I look at it this way work it out or buy me out. Sounds cold but that's what he needs to straighten his ass out. I always said I would never ask for half the real estate assets or his retirement. But screw that treat me like garbage I'll treat him like garbage.