I Miss Craigslist Personals

When Craigslist had a personal section, I used to go to the "platonic friend" section under w4m and I probably had sex with over 35 women over the years. I am a real gentleman and I would prefer going on "platonic" dates as there is less pressure - I am not being evaluated for mating but for friendship.

As is always the case - after three to four dates the friendship evolves - mix in some great conversation - you make each other laugh - you have great meals - a bottle of red wine - and the word "platonic" goes out the window.

I was never suprised when I would wake-up in a "friend's" bed hungover and naked. The sex was always great and more intense and fun as the expectations were more of a "fuck friend" then a "boyfriend". You are temporary while the "right" person might come along.

I did noticed that you often got "dropped" faster - after a dozen romps - guilt would set in and it was easy to cut the ties. That is another guy advantage to the plantonic friend that became a lover...then back to a friend..then back to a lover...then back to a friend...then one last time I promise...then back to a friend.....its complicated...bye !

If you like variety in your sexual partners, then don't look for the "perfect woman" that wants to marry you. Just look for the sexy single friend that has needs just like you.

I hope my confession helps you !