Sex Life

My wife and I got married young. We had two daughters early. By mid 40 we had empty nest. The problem is our sex life. My wife showed eagernesses for sex until we had our two daughters. The only sex she really enjoyed was pregnancy sex. After many years of very little sex I had enough and demand an explanation. My wife gave shallow answers. We would enjoy each other’s company, sleep together, and be normal husband and wife hanging out but seldom had sex. My wife would use a vibrator often not knowing I could hear it running. I insisted she get checked out medically and all was normal. The doctor suggested counciling. One and only session my wife told a lot. My wife being very religious she feels wrong having sex knowing many life problems come from sex. She admitted to enjoying mastuerbating because she only is concerned for herself. She stated she didn’t feel any reason for us to have sex any more. Being in my young 30,s I still had needs. Tinder care and touching trying to excite her was getting nowhere. I tried having sex with her during the night before she woke u good and she started wearing hard-to remove clothes. She didn’t recommend it but she said I could have sex with single other women but had to come home to her. This hurt me and I never have cheated. I’m one that has missed out on a sexual relationship. I love my wife. She is great to live with. I learned to accept single sex like my wife does.