Hook Up Gone Wrong

Over the past 3 months I had been hooking up with a guy who I met off Grindr. He’s 43. No big deal there I like older guys.

I asked him if he was std free and hiv negative which he said yes to both.

He fucked me a total of 30 times over a 3 month period. He came in me every time.

Then I went for a routine std check and I have gonorrhea in my butt! The place I get std checked at does rectal swabs since I bottom. Yeah big surprise!

So I told the guy I’m having sex with about it. He went and got a urethra swab done plus some blood work. Turns out he has gonorrhea too and he also found out he has hiv.

The hiv news was a big deal to me. Thank fucking god I’m on PREP! Men need to get tested more often!

I went to the doctor who gives me my prep. Told him the situation. Told him that guy ejaculated in my rectum 30 times over 3 months.

After hiv tests my doctor confirmed that prep did it’s job and I’m still negative. As for the guy I had sex with. He’s on hiv treatment working to get to undetectable status