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Not a confession sorry more a help needed. My husband who's in his 30s could happily fuck 4 or 5 times a day and happily have me suck him non stop in-between.
Problem is I can go weeks even months sometimes where I just don't wanna do it or be touched but I don't want him wanking which he doesn't. This would be fine as far as I'm concerned but it gets uncomfortable for him after a day or 2 of no sex stuff or coming and eventually when I do touch him he just explodes which he says he loves the release but would like it to go longer. I don't know what to do or how to help him. Don't want him jerkin the gherkin but don't want the sex hassle any idea how I can cut his libido with ease to help him get past this?

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# 56542 - by Lazy linda / February 2, 2022
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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 2, 2022 at 11:08 AM

What problem do you have with him masturbating? As the higher sex drive partner in my last relationship I can tell you this gets very depressing for him. Please make sure to communicate in other ways that he’s desirable and loved, or he may begin feeling not only sexually frustrated but insecure, and that’s a recipe for straying.

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logan2020

by logan2020 on Feb 2, 2022 at 11:15 AM

Agree with the first commenter. But I'll add, that it doesn't sound like the two of you are sexually compatible. At all. And that is a recipe for growing resentment for both of you, which is one of the worst cancers to eat at a marriage. If there are other significant issues in your relationship, it might be time to think if this is the right match going forward. You're not going to find a way to lower his libido. Give that idea up!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 2, 2022 at 3:16 PM

Must agree with the other commenters and add I wonder how you two ever married without some serious talk about the sexual incompatibility? And no, you shouldn't stop him from his only form of release and should definitely think about exploring things that turn you on.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 3, 2022 at 2:58 AM

My wife stopped wanting sex, I hated my advances constantly being rejected, so I stopped asking. I did find others who were more than willing to give the release I craved. Now I don't ask and don't care about her attitude. She noticed I am not a close anymore, just remember if you reject your man, he might find someone who won't

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 3, 2022 at 7:03 PM

Clearly the story is from a fetishists. Fetishists aren't smart people.

I can imagine he or she wanted to have supportive answers, but that's why these things are called fetish. Someone liking to not to be able to cum has a fetish. Someone who doesn't allow her man to cum has a fetish too.

Fetishists are not the smartest people on the earth, because they think everyone like their weird stuff too.

OP, I hope you learned your lesson and that's why there's no need to pretend that your story is true.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 3, 2022 at 8:17 PM

My wife is kind of like you. But when she wants sex, it's when she wants it and how she wants to satisfy her. I've grown resentful that she is all about her. I want her to be satisfied but I want to be satisfied also. Resentment isn't good. Honestly, letting your husband jerk off would be better than him cheating on you.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 6, 2022 at 2:33 AM

Honestly, either let him wank alone or with you or give him a free pass. Eventually he's gonna stop feeling the love because in all honesty I doubt there's a lot of communication there and this sounds very one sided. I'm in a similar position but my wife has reasons and we do talk so it's a lot easier but still a struggle. You just sound selfish

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 9, 2022 at 1:39 PM

The woman who wrote this orginal post is fucking bitch. What a selfish loser. I hope he cheats on you. You're one cold waste of effort. Have ever thought about how your hurting him?
You're daddy should had pulled out you horrible bitch.

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